How do you get over that kind of pain? I'm almost desperate to catch his eye and let him know how I feel, but I know he wouldn't care. Help!
2007-08-05 09:48:03 · 15 answers · asked by Rob K 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Andrew et al - go waste someone else's time, if you're too stupid to give serious answers.
To everyone else - thank you.
2007-08-05 09:58:59 · update #1
i kno exatly wot u mean but im afraid thats life u jus gotta get on with it
2007-08-05 10:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, dear.
Just ignore the haters and the ones that are only interested in points.
It seems to me that you're focusing all of your affections on this one man because you haven't got an outlet to release them otherwise. I'm willing to bet that you don't know many gay people, so once you met one you like, you like him with everything you've got, just to be able to feel that for once.
It's perfectly normal to be infatuated, but don't let it get to the point of obsession. Also, be aware that it is equally awkward for everyone to approach the object of their desire, so don't let that stop you. Talking to him, and asking him to go on a date or something is the only way to truly gauge if he's interested. If he isn't, walk away. Find another.
Pat Benatar was right when she said Love is a Battlefield, wasn't she?
2007-08-05 17:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Rob, the best thing I can tell you to do is to walk right up to him with total eye contact and introduce yourself. Make yourself known. Don't live your life regretting not ever doing it and wondering what might have been. I know it sounds scary, but you will be glad you did it in the end.
2007-08-05 18:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by justjrry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, you need to knock him off of that pedestal you have him on. Next, I suggest you do some soul-searching. If you had a healthy sense of self-esteem, you wouldn't give so much of your heart and soul to someone who, by your own admission, really doesn't give a damn about you.
Work on loving yourself. When you've truly learned to love yourself, you won't feel desperation and this intense need to be wanted by someone else.
2007-08-05 17:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by loveblue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is only one type of "breathtaking." This is the infatuation version. The true love version when you both feel the same way will be 100 times more intense. What your feeling may hurt now, but the true love will be much more intense and awesome!
2007-08-05 16:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Hankerlounge, don't do anything to push the subject with him, but think of him when you're jacking off. Hopefully that will make c*mming more intense and enjoyable. Been there, j*acked off a lot.
2007-08-05 17:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by mpst63 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they have no interest in you, you probably cant change the way they feel about you. im afraid you just have most along and stop treading on something that wont happen.
2007-08-05 17:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by maxpowr90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "infatuation"...you are creating your own pain by desperately wanting him to notice you.
2007-08-05 20:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by dutchyinfla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go on with life,stay realistic...but go ahead fantasize a little...besides who knows what the future holds
2007-08-05 16:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by zoo123hats 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do what you can to get noticed. Walk by him a lot where he will notice you
2007-08-05 16:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋