okay first let me start by saying i am 25 so i only want adult women to answer... i am the only female that does not like to receive oral sex? the guy that i am seeing wants to do it, and i wont let him.... i dont want him to feel bad, i just honestly dont like it.... and its not that i havent had anyone do it right, i have had several men try but i cannot enjoy it, i feel completely uncomfortable for a man to do this to me, but i dont mind receiving from another woman.. is there something wrong with me?
2007-08-05 09:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
not a lesbian, but i used to be bi.... i say i used to because i gave up being with women when i got pregnant with my first child. i would much rather have sex with a man, im wondering if maybe this is a control issue? i think when a man does it, i feel i have no control? idk
2007-08-05 09:42:00 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with having different tastes (no pun intended) when it comes to sexuality. Perhaps there is a psychological reason why you prefer to receive from women rather than from men... but as long as it doesn't cause you undue distress... then you should be fine. In any case, I know other women that don't enjoy oral sex either... e.g. it's fine for them, but they don't climax from it... it's a personal preference, don't worry...
2007-08-05 09:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by thedrisin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you are normal. I think some women don't mind it from other females because women know what women want..they know how to move their tongues and mouths in the right way. Men on the other-hand are doing it for their enjoyment and just go at it and don't think to much of how they are doing it and making sure its going well for you. (well a lot of men not all). Maybe you are nervous with the men?..or maybe you think about not liking it and it just makes you hate it more. Also talk to your partner and tell him that you don't feel comfortable. he should understand. maybe you could let him know you are like this with all men in the past and that its not him and you are very uncomfortable with it. also see if he can try to find a way so you can like it and if you do find a way that's great and if not then you say OK thanks for trying but i would rather not do that anymore. good luck.
2007-08-05 16:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by alm27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never liked the way men did it either, I preferred the way women did it too. I am married with 3 kids now. I do let my husband do it, he enjoys it, and he does it very similar to how the women did. If it's something that you enjoy then maybe try coaching the man you are with on how to do it the way that you like. If he really wants to do it then he will be open to constructive criticism. If it's something that you are not willing to try then be completely open and honest about it with your man. And no there is nothing wrong with you, before my husband I never enjoyed the way men did it either.
2007-08-05 16:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one. It's something I used to love but one day, about 6 years ago, I stopped liking it. I have no idea why. I just don't care for it anymore. As for the fact that you don't like it from a man but don't mind it from a woman, I don't know what to tell you. That's a different matter all together. That might be more about being bisexual/lesbian. But, you are totally normal!!!
2007-08-05 16:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything wrong with you. There is no rule that says you have to like everything other people do. Although I honestly believe that if you get it the right way (from a woman as you mentioned) then you wont feel the way you do. Try teaching your man how to do it the way you enjoy it.
2007-08-05 16:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like to have sex with men? You may be lesbian or
bisexual.
2007-08-05 16:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by angel_nurse82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r NORMAL
2007-08-05 16:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. SAT.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋