How do you get over someone who no longer cares for you?

Answer 1

Just remind yourself that life must go on, and try to focus on another person. :)

Answer 2

I am sorry to hear you are still struggling with this. I know you asked a similar question a few weeks ago. You need to let go...I know it is hard and it doesn't seem like the right thing to do.... but it is. It hurts because it meant something to you, but it doesn't mean it meant that much to him. Give yourself some to to grieve and focus on taking care of yourself. Spend some time with your friends and family, the ones who love you. Their strength will help you get through this. You can't spend your whole life being unhappy and chasing a guy who doesn't have the same feelings for you. You deserve to be happy.....and he won't do that for you. You deserve to be treated with respect and chivalry.....and he won't do that for you. You deserve a man who will stand by your side and be there for you when you need it.......and he won't do that for you. You deserve a man who will love and cherish you.....and he won't do that for you. You deserve a man who thinks you are the one person who makes the world one beautiful place and the one person he can't live without....and he won't do that for you. I know it hurts and I know it is not easy.....but you deserve that. The "right" person for you is still out there, but you will never find him if you don't let go. You deserve to be happy and find that one person who will mean the world to you ! I hope this helps.... : )

Answer 3

You need to emotionally move on, no matter how painful it can be. That person did not care for you, which makes for very bitter final moments...but also take that experience and learn from it. Through the ashes can come new and better friendships and/or a real lover who respects everything about you.

Answer 4

Realize that no matter how good something may seem it just didn't work. Then realize that sometimes when two people care about each other it still isn't enough to overcome the fact that the other person wasn't worthy of you.
Regardless of how good they seemed, they were just a speedbump on the road lof life and they have proven that they are no longer a good thing, but instead, a bad thing a defective robot that must be crushed and sent back to the factory to be destroyed!
Finally you must obliterate all traces of them from your life, remove phone numbers and email addresses then ritually cleanse them in your recycle bin of the computer.

Answer 5

I try to just let it go. The past is no longer here, I would face the facts and put my feelings aside and try to move on. Just remember that you deserve so much more than that.

Answer 6

Time, family and friends. Being occupied with something other than that person will heal your heart quicker. Never dwell on anything other than your happiness.

Answer 7

wish i knew! i do agree with the answer above, i have one that i always go back and fixate on, but the problem seems to go away when i date someone else. but i also think it's important that you allow yourself some degree of time to grieve the loss

Answer 8

You won't,until you find someone else. And there's always someone else. Anyone can be replaced. Sounds a little ruthless,but it's true.

Answer 9

Time, I know it sounds lame but it's true. It may not seem that way now but everyday you will start to feel a little better.

Answer 10

By simply realizing that if they don't care for you, you need to quit wasting your time. If he/she cared, then you wouldn't have to be worried. Move on to someone that reciprocates your emotions. Good luck!