dont want to go into to much detail-but friday went on a 'date' with a friend to try and get my ex jealous but he must've decided to stay home. :(
anyway went back to my brothers(currently staying with him,used to live with my ex for 3 years) anyway and i ended up losing my virginity to him,and now my butt is really hurting and i am having a slight problem when going to the loo.
anyway,when will the pain go for first timers?
kinda feels like...(if it can be possible)hot ice.
2007-08-05 08:19:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
*cringe*i just re-read it.so it does.no i meant i lost my cherry to my friend.
sorry i dont think things through most of the time.
2007-08-05 08:28:24 · update #1
ty i dont know mac in real life so dont worry about me being competition. :-)
2007-08-05 08:29:39 · update #2
Dr *****-actually cant be bothered with trolls right now.
2007-08-05 08:30:36 · update #3
It depends on how rough it was and how big he was. The pain is normal and will go away eventually. You should be careful about not sitting on any hard surfaces.
2007-08-05 08:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal... I would also suggest drinking water. It sounds stupid, but it will help when you have to go #2 so that you aren't pushing, but letting gravity help you and the water will help a bit. Just be really kind to yourself down there and maybe get those wet wipes so that after you go to the bathroom you can clean and it won't hurt as much at the TP does. Just be sensitive to that area and you'll be okay.
2007-08-05 16:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jyse 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The way you worded that kinda makes it seem like you lost your virginity to your brother!
Thats not what you meant is it?
and im sure the pain will go away soon, if you still have it in a few days id go to the doctor.
2007-08-05 15:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Clare 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if it's been more than a day, and you're still having problems in the bathroom, you may have torn something. But if my memory is good, the pain from the first time only lasted a day (or so)
2007-08-05 15:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Clint 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
its usual. when i lost my cherry it hurt for days. I'm normally active but on some occasions i receive and it still hurts like mad at 1st. Try using anusol pile cream, i do and it really helps.
2007-08-05 19:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by jay boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain will go away. Your first time will hurt, but each additional time, try to relax more and it will not hurt
2007-08-05 16:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
oh that means it's not true love, it never hurts when you love the person. The pain is God's punishment for having casual sex. Try having sex with a guy you're in love with and it wont hurt ;-)
2007-08-05 18:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by I only love you when I drink 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably bruised internally.next time use more lube and relax.Use icepacks and it will help maybe two ore three days depending on how bad the bruising is
2007-08-06 01:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help! (:
but if it's still painful after several days I'd suggest u go see a doc!
2007-08-05 15:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Joes 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell the Muslims.
2007-08-05 18:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋