I am a girl but I want a wife. It's not that i am gay or something, but seriously..I want to get married with a man..but I want a wife. It's like we see on TV. The man comes home from work and the wife get him some tea or coffee. She massage his back.. It's like..ah..so nice. Can I marry a guy but get a wife? What is wrong with me? Why am I asking for a wife?
2007-08-05 07:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
ok, you don't want a wife, you just want a husband who spoils you the way wives in old sitcoms spoiled their husbands. it's unusual that you feel this way i think, but not too unusual... there isn't anything wrong with you lol, you just want to be treated like gold. and there actually are a few guys who are willing to do that.
2007-08-05 07:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by nameless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wives are not like that any longer, honey, that was in the olden days. She stays home cleaning, gardening and cooking and taking care of the children and he goes out all day and works 9:00-5:00. When he gets home his slippers are waiting near his chair. His newspaper is all laid out. She brings him whatever beverage he would like and offers to massage his back because she knows he has been working so hard (what about her?) Wonderful fragrances are wafting from the kitchen where the wife has a generous and delicious meal ready for him as soon as he has had a chance to unwind. And, mind you, the wife has done all this without messing her hair up or her flawless makeup, because if he has to come home to a frump, well, he might just not come home some day. The children, of course, are perfectly behaved, only showing their faces when dinner is served...
This is the fantasy that women tried to live up to until inflation made it necessary for most women to work. Then one day someone said, "It isn't really fair when we work 9:00-5:00 and our husbands work 9:00-5:00 that all the household chores and bringing up of the children still should fall to the woman," and the revolution began. Now no one gets this kind of treatment any longer though we would all like it. I will let you in on a little secret, it wasn't even fair before women joined the workforce because the wife's job was from dawn to dusk, not 9:00 to 5:00.
But, unless you have money to employ a servant (or two) you won't be able to get a "wife" in the old sense of the word.
2007-08-05 15:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wives on TV are not representative of real-life wives...but I have the second best thing to it! My husband is a stay at home dad, and while he doesn't get me coffee or tea, he does like giving me massages.
Nothing's wrong with you...
2007-08-05 19:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, apparently you want a stereotypical wife. Just get a stay-at-home husband and treat him like June Cleaver or something.
2007-08-05 14:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bird of Paradise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a man like that. He works at home and when I get home from work he has dinner on the table and even rubs my feet. I share him with you, but he doesn't have a brother.
PS I'm not gay, bi or bi-curious.
2007-08-06 00:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life before
Actually am that kind of guy but in north America most women don't like that.A men should be manly and get served and not the other way around.
2007-08-05 14:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're asking to cure the headache by cutting off the head.
2007-08-05 14:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You watch too much tv and have no grasp on reality. Wives arent really like that all the time.
2007-08-05 14:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
laughing my head off
2007-08-05 14:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by calypso98us 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question.
what is wrong with u?
2007-08-05 14:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by Vicky Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋