i have a new bf and i havent had one yet i dont know maybe im just nervious or not relaxed enough??!
give me some tips.. i dont think ive ever had a gd orgasm through sex alone.
2007-08-05 06:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by x_sofia_x 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
A great deal of men dont know what they are doing? You see, we "O" every time,...every time. So, unfortunately we dont know what feels good to you, and don't take that much time to learn. Most women are different as far as what buttons to push, so to speak. Most men are the same. What works on one guy, will pretty much work on all of us. But, not so for women. A good portion of women feel uncomfortable telling their male partner what they do and dont like in bed (or on the coffe table, or maybe in the back of his truck) But trust me we want to know, not only what we're doing right, but what we are doing wrong. You will find that if you are specific and explicit with exactly what you like and want him to do to get you off, that he will (unless he's just a self-gratifying ******) get you to where you need to be with the whole Orgsm thing, and he'll do it your way.
2007-08-05 07:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by peardietz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a place on your neck 2 inches above the collarbone. some nymphomaniacs usually around the age of 29 to 35 can achieve orgasm just from that place. the palm of your hand is also connected to every other part of your body. there is not one way to have an orgasm. it might take 2 to 5 hours and the thighs and clitoris are the closest places to where the orgasm occurs. if your boyfriend does not know how to give you an orgasm, then ask him him to delay sexual intercourse until you are already orgasming and then if he is a good lover, you should not have any problems. read some sex books. they are easy to get, and there is a lot of literature on this sort of thing since the kinsey report, masters and johnson etc. there is a lot of literature on it. you cannot have an orgasm by pushing toward intercourse. it has to be delayed
2007-08-05 09:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by thomasdavidhalbrook@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using warming lubricants. Sometimes when you're nervous or tired or whatever, you can stay dry. I know, it can be embarrassing to go into the adult shops, but they really do have the best stuff there. The junk you get at the grocery store is worthless. Also, try a little longer on the foreplay. It takes women longer to orgasm than men and with more foreplay, you have more time to get there. DO NOT overuse vibrators because that will actually inhibit your ability to have orgasms naturally.
2007-08-05 07:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Zen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orgasm for you is not achieved with just a penis going in and out. He can rasp away for centuries without result. What is also required for orgasm during intercourse is the involvement of your clitoris.
This can be done by him rising high on you while he's buried as deep and he can, which will bring his pubic bone in contact with your clitoris while he thrusts. Another way is a scissors position while you're on your side so he can be deep up against your clit while being in a relaxed position.
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2007-08-05 16:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women don't have an orgasm through penetration alone. Most need some sort of clitoral stimulation, so don't fret!
The best way to be able to orgasm with a partner is to figure out how to make yourself orgasm on your own! Take some time for you to explore yourself. That way, you can show your boyfriend the best way to please you.
2007-08-05 07:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chrisann Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have an orgasm, you need to be relaxed. Try to enjoy at least 30 minutes of foreplay. Lube helps!
Most women don't achieve orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. Clitoral stimulation should help. Don't be afraid to do it yourself if he won't.
Most of all, be verbal. Tell him what you like and what feels good, better, best!
2007-08-05 07:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Deb C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 27% of women can achieve an orgasm through internal stimulation.
You need clitoral stimulation for that to happen.
Communicate with one and other. tell him when he is in the spot, when if feels good, if he should be higher or lower, harder or more gentle. tell him what u like and it will happen.
2007-08-05 07:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean achieve, not archive. Very few women have orgasms through sex alone - they need additional clitoral stimulation.
2007-08-05 06:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by RadTech - BAS RT(R)(ARRT) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 12:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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