I am a girl...& i do have a few guy friends but 1 of them (i don't know well enough to just ask) but i think he might be gay but he certainly isn't "out of the closet" if u no wat i mean..... he seems very straight but he just gives off a funny vibe...
2007-08-05 06:26:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You will know sooner or later , if he is gay or not .
2007-08-05 06:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch his mannerisms for example how he uses his hands. Is he constantly moving his hair out of his face, pointing his finger when he talks, snapping his neck while hes talking, walking with a twitch to his dackside, standing with his hands on his hips for long periods on time, crossing his legs to far up when he sits down. You cant neccessarly base someone being gay based on their voice. I know alot of guys with high pitched voice no deepness to it at all but their the biggest bunch of hoes ive ever met. You can ask him certain questions too that will give you an answer to whther he is gay without him even knowing your testing him. When he comments about clothes on someone or conversations on who looks better in what pay attention to whether his focus is more on men then women. A womans intuition is not going to stear you wrong. If hes giving you a funny vibe something might be up with him but it doesnt nessarily mean hes gay. Enjoy his friendship and quit worrying about the little things girl!!! I hope i helped.
2007-08-05 06:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by meka g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its amazing that something as huge in a person's life as their sexuality is so easy to hide. Sometimes wives have been totally stunned after years of marriage to find out that their hubby was gay all the time. Its not easy to tell. I know a guy who is frankly effeminate, people always think he is gay. He is as straight as they get. Yet I know a former football player and Marine Corps officer who is gay, and a construction worker, too. Short of monitoring the person's mail and computer habits, I don't think there is a way to tell for sure.
2007-08-05 06:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by jxt299 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. Unless your interested in him personally its not really any of your business. If doesn't tell you then he obviously doesnt think you need to know.
Just because a person looks a certain way or has a vibe doesn't make them gay. The only way to really know is if they tell you or you meet their boyfriend.
2007-08-05 06:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Te 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy his friendship and don't worry too much about his orientation. When/if he feels comfortable enough to come out the closet, he will. Until then, any attempt to pin him down will just make him uncomfortable and potentially end the friendship. Besides, it really shouldn't matter from a friendship standpoint.
2007-08-05 06:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Clint 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find it most proper NOT to tell a guy he is gay, or to assume he is gay. I think it is nice for any person who wants you to know something just tells you about it, if and when that person wants to.
2007-08-05 06:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by laurel g 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious conversation with him and just ask him. You have to make him feel comfortable though so he can tell you the truth.
2007-08-05 06:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by escape 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make? If he is a good friend, then that is all you worry about...unless you like him or something. Leave him alone.
2007-08-05 06:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by eniles21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are pale because by having annal sex they lose a lot of blood. So look anemic. They are also plagued with diseases from the filthy habits of a homosexual life style.
They don't just like others of their own sex but they are having multiple partners on a nightly basis.
I read about it in one of those health magazines for men that it is a very dangerous life style and condoms do not keep out the AIDS virus. It is very small virus and can go through most condoms. They can be both sometimes straight and sometimes gay.
2007-08-05 06:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
Ask him. If he laughs at you he's probably not gay. If he gets pissed off then maybe he is.
2007-08-05 06:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by O&APest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Observe how he behaves around really hot girls. Is he giving her the "I love that bag" stare or the "mmm... I'd do her" stare. Does he check out the men?
2007-08-05 06:32:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋