ok i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started dancing and flirting with each other...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention by grabbing my waste...then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy" i mean seriously, whats his problem??? its ok for him to hook up with other girls but not ok for me to flirt or dance with other guys? i mean what was that all about?? what do u guys think?
2007-08-05 05:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by fran c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a true case of either
A) I want what I can't have
or
B) I didn't realize what I had until I didn't have it anymore
Either way, keep moving on.
He probably wanted a quickie one night stand......
2007-08-05 05:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your ex wants it all. He wants to be free to see other people but also wants you hanging around because it strokes his ego.
He sounds like a jerk. You are better off with out him. Erase all of his contact info from every device you have. Block his calls and start a new life. Find some one who will respect you and love you. You don't need someone who just wants an easy booty call.
2007-08-05 05:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by nac'smom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there! Honestly, i think your boyfriend is acting like an ex who still wants you just because he is being selfish..Seeing another guy being with you hurts his ego because then he realized how easy it is for guys to notice you and be attracted to you. Be proud and happy about yourself coz you made him realize what he is missing about you. His words "I want you but you're with another guy" says it all. He just wants you, he doesn't love you. You're ex is just having ego problems like most men do, sad to say. So don't let yourself be bothered by his selfish acts. You deserve better than an ex who is kissing another girl just after two months...
2007-08-05 05:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's always going to be hard to see your ex with somebody else. However, there was a reason you split up in the first place, and if that hasn't changed your ex should respect you and let you move on.
He more that likely was saying he wants you, just because its so hard for him to see you with somebody else.
Good Luck!!! xx
2007-08-05 05:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Angela26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and to be able to eat it too. It's hard for a man to see his ex with someone else, even both have moved. It doesn't sound logical, but it's the truth.
2007-08-05 05:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow maybe what u were doin he tried to do the same thing maybe he saw u before u saw him and got a giorl to make u jealous but you back fired withch was a great thing to do so he is sayin i know i don wrong i reealized with out you im a mess
2007-08-05 05:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life style.
Don't get bother. Forget about him.
He just feeling jealous.
2007-08-05 05:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Beatrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was jealous because boys always think that they're the only was who can have fun i think the best for you is forget him and start a new life with new loves and be his friend
2007-08-05 05:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's simple he wants his cake and eat it too!
had there been no other guys into you he wouldn't have paid you any interest....it's now becoming a challenge for him...
it's up to you to entertain him!
think hard about that, keeping in mind how he vanished for months on you!!
2007-08-05 05:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by SUNSHINE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes an idiot then. you should be able to do what u want and so shood he. if u like him back go back out with him unless the breakup was over soemthing pretty bad & if u dont like him dont call the creep back lol.
2007-08-05 05:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋