Should i belive her , because she has pulled this 6 times and it wasn't true . Shoyld i demand a test ? What Should I do ?
2007-08-05 04:53:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Go to the local drug store, by a double pack of pregnancy test. Make her take 1 in front of you, since she says shes pregnant. And than make her take another one in a week. If she really is pregnant she will have no problem doing it right there. But if she refuses, than she is more than likely lying. Make sure to use protection.
2007-08-05 05:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by MOMMYS-TWINS-ARE-IN-HEAVEN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...has she pulled "I'm def pregnant" 6 times, or "I think I'm pregnant"? There's a big difference!
If she's saying she's def pregnant over and over again, by all means, demand a test. And watch her take it!
If she's going nuts with fear of being pregnant, there may be a deeper issue going on. Tell her she needs to take a test or quit worrying you about it, everytime she has gas or something doesn't mean she's pregnant.
Either way, it's hard to turn your back on something like that. Cry wolf syndrome, ya know?!
After she takes the test, if she's not preg, have a serious talk with yourself on whether or not you can tolerate this behavior, and if you CAN'T, well, you know what to do....
Good luck, I hope things work out!
2007-08-05 07:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by belle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should not demand a tes just ask , and if she says no then just be happy . She might of messed up 6 times but sometimes those tests can be false . Just be happy . Your going to be a great dad . Congrates & Good Luck .
2007-08-05 05:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by [[`*SARAHCAK3S TH3 CH0LA`*]] b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first things first........ if your girlfriend has done this six times, what the HELL ARE YOU DOING HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX WITH HER????????????????????????????????????? honestly dude, after the first time she did this why aren;t you wearing a condom? what is wrong with you? Do you want a baby????/I don;t know how old you are but i do know you are pretty young as you haven;t learned your lesson yet if this is the sixth time she has done this? Jesus kid do you not understand what will happen to your life if she gets pregnant??????????????????/ it will be over!!!!!! literally everything you do all the money you make will have to go to raise the baby, and chances are by the time the baby is 1or 2 you won;t even be with this girl, smarten up and start taking care of your goddamn business. If you think you are old enough to have sex,YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO GO BUY A GODDMAN BOX OF CONDOMS FOR YOURSELF, AS A GUY YOU NEVER EVER EVER BELEIVE THE GIRL IF SHE SAYS I AM ON THE PILLL, SO WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 HOW ABOUT STD'S SILLY????????/ HOW ABOUT AIDS COME ON WE DON;T LIVE IN THE 40'S ANY MORE FOR CHRIST SAKE, THIS IS THE YEAR 2007 AND THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO EXCUSE ON THE FACE OF THIS PLANET FOR UNWANTED PREGNANCIES WHICH IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO YOU IF YOU KEEP BEING SO STUPID, AND YOU ARE BEING STUPID KID/
I AM GUESSING YOU STILL LIVE AT HOME AND GO TO SCHOOL, SO YOU TELL ME FOR ONE SECOND HOW YOU THINK YOU TWO ARE GOING TO BE ABLE TO SUPPORT A BABY? HOW? ON YOUR 7 DOLLAR AN HOUR JOB? OR LIVE WITH YOUR PARENTS, OR HER HAVE TO GO THROUGH AN ABORTION OR GIVE UP THE BABY, JESUS DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW FRICKING CRAZY IT SOUNDS WHEN YOU SAY THIS HAS HAPPENED 6 TIMES??????????????????????????/// i DON;T UNDERSTAND. tHEY CAN;T REFUSE TO SELL YOU CONDOMS AT THE STORE SO WHAT IS YOUR EXCUSE DUDE? yEs you should go to the store and buy a test and stand there with her while she does it, and god help you if sheisn;t preggnant then you better SMARTEN UP@!!!!!!!!!!!! grab a brain, and start wearing some goddman condoms, there is absolutely no excuse, you guys are being really really STUPID!!!!!!!!!!! hopefully she isn;t and really dude, grow up and smell the coffeee and start takin carfe of your business or you are goin to end up with a baby that you two can;t bring up cause of lackof education =money houseing etc. so stopbeing so stupid!! GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 i also would be secondthinkigon daitng a girl that allows this to happen six times let alone you letting it happen six times really dude..................haven;t you two talked about this after the third time really what is wrong with you that you can;t tell her to use birthcontrol? really man, DO YOU NOT COOMMUNICATE AT ALLLLLL???????????????????????/come on really she has let this happen six times SHE IS TRYING TO GET PREGNANT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAVING A CHILD IS NOT A GODDAMN GAME PEOPLE REALLY. iN AMONGST YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND BEING EXTREMELY IRRESPONSIBLE THERE IS GOING TO BE AN INNOCENT BABY INVOLVED IN ALL OF THIS CRAP REALLY AND I BEG TO DIFFER THE CHANCES THIS CHILD WILL HAVE IN THIS WORLD, WHEN YOU TWO CAN;T EVEN FIGURE OUT HOW FOR HER NOT TO GET PREGNANT SO REALLY TAKE A LONG LOOK AT HOW IRRESPOSIBLE YOU TWO KIDS ARE ACTING HERE AND SMARTEN UP FO GET THE TEST AND WATCH HER DO IT. geese get a grip people get a grip
2007-08-05 05:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by babymalai 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First question, Do you want her to become pregnant?, Second question, if not why are you still having unprotected sex with her?
The answer about the test is yes, and then refer to my questions and think really long and hard about them. Do you want to be tied to this woman for the next 18 years? Do you love her and want to marry her?
2007-08-05 05:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by dwm5_62 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did she lie about it 6 times?........Tell her that you cant support her or help her unless you know 4 sure that shes pregnant..........and that she shouldnt lie about that or lie period......relationships is trust......not lying.....she must need attention...or counseling.....shes called
'wolf "too many times how are u suppossed 2 believe her when it actually does happen
2007-08-05 05:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she has lied about it 6 other times my questions are:
1. why in the HELL are you still sleeping with her
2. why are you still with this girl
you need to move on
2007-08-05 05:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your grlfrnd needs help if she lied about that. thats something you dont mess with. make her take a test in front of you. that should explain it. if she dont want to then yes she lied to you again and then you should GET E NEW GRLFRND!!!!
good luck!!
2007-08-05 06:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by ARMY WIFE TO BE 2012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, it will become pretty self-evident within a few months.
2007-08-05 04:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for nine months
2007-08-05 04:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋