My husband and I have been under alot of stress...I had 2 miscarriages..we did IVF to conceive..our sex life hasn't been the greatest..he doens't have a job, now our baby might have downs syndrome..he said he couldn't talk to me, that I didn't listen to him..he started talking to this other girl...she lives right around the corner....I was upset..I asked him to stop calling and talking to her?? Am I wrong to ask him to stop talking to her???
2007-08-05 04:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no,your not.
just pray that they arent seeing each other.
im being serious,
pray.
2007-08-05 04:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur not wrong!!! Just try talking things out with him and request him not to do things which he will repent in the future... Tell him that u are already under a lot of stress and all u need is his love and support...And he will get urs in return!!! Try saving ur marriage and if nothing works, then im sorry to say but parting ur ways will be the only option...But atleast for ur baby's sake... Try saving ur marriage
2007-08-05 04:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You have every right to ask that. He's is your husband and he is not showing you any respect or considering your wedding vows.
I'd also tell her at once to stop talking to your husband. For what ever reason they are talking to one another, you also need to be included in the conversation , that is you need to be present. If he is uncomfortable with that for any reason, I would suspect something else going on between them
2007-08-05 05:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! He's your husband you can ask him to do whatever you want him to do. Whether or not he agrees to stop is based on how he feels about his personal committment to you. I would definitely get counseling. Some places offer it for free or on a sliding scale. But I'm sure, you are under as much stress as he is, if not even more. Don't be afraid to stand up for what you want or don't want in your marriage.
2007-08-05 04:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ~
He's YOUR husband and needs to be considerate of YOUR feelings
It's a sign of a big problem brewing though.
Would you & he be willing to have her over & talk about what's going on?
So he had the person he has gotten comfortable talking to right there with the person he should be talking to. Then you would be able to see their interactions & decide if you are comfortable with them being alone together while you're at work.
2007-08-05 04:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by IDKthat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Marrige is in trouble and your hubby needs to buck up. If not now split up and do not look back.
2007-08-05 04:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married yes you have to right and no he does not have the right to turn to another but if he has and won't come back then just move on and forget him. sometimes its best to move and leave on.
2007-08-08 15:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can ask girl hes your husband!!
2007-08-05 04:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by SweetAngl143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just experiencing what my father and mother experienced when i was young. It's not wrong. It's your priority!!!! Screw him over and ask his *** off!!!!!
2007-08-05 04:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Spada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-07 20:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋