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Question

Can Friends be lovers and still be Friends?

Answer 1

Yes I think thy could, Thy would have to be vary close and open to make it work.

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Answer 2

NO, only a very rare few can make it work.

You may think you can be and it may work for a while. But being lovers and only friends will not fulfill your needs. And if he starts making love to other girls you may feel a sense of jealousy. Truth is there is no such thing as no strings attached. When you make love with someone it creates a special bond. I don't know why would want to waste that on someone you dont truly love. But trust me you will start caring about him and you will feel the need to be loved on a different level soon enough.

Its sad to see how many great and amazing friendships can go down the drain once you become more then decide that not what you want. It will be awkward. I hope that doesnt happen to you. Once you cross the line its very hard to go back.

However if you lover is your significant other then they should be your best friend. My boyfriend is the love of my life and my best friend. And thats the way it should be. If your anything else that relationship will be unsuccessful.

Answer 3

Of course that can! I'm still friends with my recent lover who was, before that, one of my really good friends. Friends can become lovers if both want it. It's not as much of a sin as some people make it sound. But, of course, if you breakup it will mess up your friendship for a while and you'll feel awkward talking to the other person, and if this is a boy you're after, he's probably going to ignore you for a while. Of course, after some healing time, and some stubborness with your own feelings, you can be friends once again. :)

Answer 4

no, in fact the best way to ruin a perfectly good freinship is to have sex with them. Sometimes you meet someone who while being truely hot, has something you are more interested in to offer you, you have to choose between possible a few wonderful romps between the sheets, (which could develope into a getting married situation, but that's not what I'm talking about.) or a life long freindship that you cherish dearly

Answer 5

Friends can be lovers if the love feeling blooms... ^_^

They might actually love each other yet still remain as friends.

Answer 6

Oooh hard one! Well as long as the relationship works out you will always be friends, the only problem comes if the relationship brakes down and end's badly. It's a toughy but if it's love you have to at least try.

Answer 7

yes, it is. if you both norture the relationship and be the best you can be for each other, then, i congratulate you for being
friends and lovers at the same time.

Answer 8

thats wot happens when you break up... are you still friends afterwards? that means you were lovers and always were friends during the time.

can you love somebody without always being over them and looking for sex? then yes. of course!
Do you need to be with your loved one all the time or feel that you need to? then yes!
Do you avoid your loved one when he/shes not naked? the hell no!

different possibilities.

Answer 9

It really depends on the two people who are willing to stay friends and have a good relationship with each other. They got to have a well understanding of e/o .

Answer 10

Yes, I think so. Your lover should be your best friend. The person in whom you confide, your confidante!

Answer 11

Friends can be lovers, but I think the "friendship" will always be tainted or conflicted--way too hard. been there done that