What is the situation in our relationship are we boyfriend/ girlfriend?

Question

you know we met and we talked a little, i knew she liked me alot, then we started talking alot more and we went to the beach together, there we talked alot, then on the beach we listend to her cd's together, she put her hand on top of mine, then i grabed her hand and we held hands, then she started playing with my hair, then we held hands with the hands, we kept moving closer to eachother and then she kissed me, then that night we went out, we only had this noght cuz she was leavin later that night and so would i, so she said we have to keep talking with eachother and we gave eachother our addresses, we held hands when we walked and she always squeezed my hand, then we sat don on a little wall and we hugged, she asked me if i had a girlfriend and i said no, she smiled and then we started kissing and hugging, then we walked back home holding hands, and i gave her one last kiss goodbye, since that night she texted me 3 times telling me how she always thinkin bout me, whats the situation?

she lives in italy and i live in the us

i do go to italy and want to go there as soon as possible

she is a litle older than me, im 18

she told me that night that it was a night she will never forget

she told me i was the sweetest guy she ever met

she told me she cant wait to hear from in the letter

we will be writing letters to eachother alot

should i ask her if we are boyfriend/girlfriend

she asked me if i had one and i said no then she smiled and hugged me

in the letter im telling her how i will never forget that night and you were the best part of my time there in italy and that i miss you and am going to come see as soon as i get the money and that i think she is the most beautiful and nice, sweetest girl i have ever met


should i say those things and should i add are we boyfriend/girlfriend?

Answer 1

That is cute and sweet... People have long distant relationships and are boyfriend/girlfriend. But I don't believe you have know each other long enough, or have seen each other enough to REALLY consider yourself boy/girlfriend.
It could work into that, even if you are so far apart.
I wouldn't ask her if she is your girlfriend.
The other things you said would be great to write to her or tell her over the phone.. I am sure she would love to hear that.
Then wait and see where the relationship goes.

~faith