We got married and no one knows yet. How do we tell parents who dont understand our relationship?
2007-08-05 03:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by Honey B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My parents know him already and know we are engaged.
2007-08-05 04:01:15 · update #1
WE GOT MARRIED!
^thats what u say
2007-08-05 03:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow..That's a tough one. First of all, how could you do something like that!? Didn't you ever think about how your parents would feel about it? Man, that was selfish of you and your husband, but then since it already happened, I guess there's nothing anyone can do about it. If your parents met your husband while you were still dating, then it wouldn't be as hard.
You can just gather the family in the living room (including your husband), and say something like: "Mom, dad, there's something we have to tell you. I know that this may disappoint you, and we don't expect you to accept the whole thing right away. I hope you don't get mad, although I would totally understand if you will. To get it over with, 'husband's name' and I got married on 'date'. I'm sorry we didn't tell you before the wedding because 'state the reason.' We didn't mean to hurt you in any way and I hope you forgive me/us."
I hope you settle things with your parents.
2007-08-05 03:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them we got married and let them know that your starting a life together with him and hope that they wish you the best because you would still want them to be a part of your life also. and hope that they'll be understanding.
2007-08-05 04:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your problem is just same as mine.what i do is..
i tell my mother coz she understand me..i say i love a guy and i want to marry him.i wait what she say.she say okey then i say, i want to get enggaged with him as soon as possible.
i wait what she say and she say okey.at last i will say,dont worry
i wont give you trouble by that coz i have married..i will hug her and say im sorry but i love him a lot.pls accept it.
thats all.try your self
2007-08-05 03:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bavani Thamothram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Got Married. You're On Your Own, Suckas!
2007-08-05 03:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should have told them before..but..i don't know they like you're husbent??...if they know that before you had a boyfriend??!!you..have to tell them ...maybe...you can introduce him like you're bf..and than you say that you had got married whith him...it's not easy....
2007-08-05 03:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them straight up if the love u they wont care if they do care they r horrible parents
2007-08-05 04:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a copy of the marriage certificate laying around.
2007-08-05 04:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sit them down and in a mature manner explain that you understand their feelings, but you have taken this decision and hope they can accept it
2007-08-05 03:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you do it together for each family. Congratulations! HUGS
2007-08-05 03:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋