i went to a beach party yesterday by myself,my husband was working.and when i went to leave ,they didn't want me to go.so i told them i have wifely duties to take care of,and OMG did those woman jump all over my stuff for saying that.like are you a maid,do you let your husband control you and worse. i just wanted to get home and start supper for us.it's like they thought i was submissive or something.woman are the worst BASHERS!
2007-08-05 03:29:45 · 21 answers · asked by frenchy 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
where i am from all our females are programed to be the same and do not have personal opinions for one another,the same with us males.we have certain duties that we do without asking or defending.it's all for the cause of the race.
2007-08-05 04:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I live in a well-to-do area...therefore can see your point with some views. Seriously, do they count on thier "hired help" or what? My wife and I have agreements as to what we:
1. Will do all the time
2. Split between us 50/50
3. What we hate doing and the other one just hate it less.
During the warmer months, I am absolutely responsible for all yard work, and therefore am let off some of the indside work. In the winter...all bets are off and we split the inside stuff.
So, sound like husbandly duties?
2007-08-05 10:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by NY PTK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize with you and also agree with you that women are the worst bashers. Recently, a woman who volunteers a lot and has a very messy house asks me why I don't volunteer more often. I say it is because housework takes up a lot of my time. Now, this woman is always making sarcastic remarks that implied that I am a submissive old-fashion wife.
2007-08-05 10:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it some women think a wife is a slave to their men. They don't know them well enough to judge them so they give their opinions even if they are bad ones, so don't worry about it and live the way you want to.
2007-08-05 10:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by carpathian3030 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be catty. You know who you are and what your life is like. Based solely on your account, their problem is they jump to conclusions, and I'd say sexism for their willingness to immediately assume you're being dominated by a controlling husband.
2007-08-05 10:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, some people just want to party, and maybe, they want to party with you! I would assume, because you're such and thoughtful and loving person, that you were the life of the party and as you turned to leaving, they tried to minipulate you into staying. Shame on them!
2007-08-05 10:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tericka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because society today says "do what you want and when you want. feel good now at any expense or you won't be happy." i personally think it's a beautiful thing if a woman takes care of her man. mine does, and i take care of her. most people now and too concerned with what makes them feel good. you were bashed because you showed them that you're a good person and are considerate. think about how jealous their boyfriend's would be if they heard that.
2007-08-05 10:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They sound like a miserable bunch of crows. They're probably saying all that because they're actually the ones who act like maids behind closed doors.
2007-08-05 10:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by JERSEY BOY ♠♥♦♣ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL--now see things I do around my house I call commen sense and being a mom--while Wifely duties I only do in the bedroom...LOL
2007-08-05 10:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol they shoulndt jump on you.
your being his wife.
your doing things for him because you love him.
and thats what a wife is suppose to do.
their just jealous because you want to do those things.
and they have lost touch with the ones they are with.
and are jealous of your willingness and your devotion
2007-08-05 10:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by janiesmash 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋