2007-08-05 02:53:01 · 6 answers · asked by drapoel wons 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My husband is emotionally & mentally abusive and has been for 20 years. He has put us into financial ruin. I can't take anymore. I want to leave but his health now is failing and I feel like a rotten person if I leave him, he needs me ? I am physically sick everyday and most of all I am tormented mentally , what should I do ?
2007-08-05 03:06:07 · update #1
There is no reason to be scared. If he has been mentally and emotionally abusive to you for that long then he is the one that has made you feel guilty if you leave.
His health is ailing now because of all the torment he put you through. Karma is biting him in the bum and he is getting his comeuppance. He doesn't deserve you and you should just look yourself up and down in the mirror and say "I am a good person and I can make it on my own!"
Pack your things and tell him that you need to get away from his abuse and leave. Don't look back. Make sure you have some money and a place to go first. It may not happen straight away. you may need some time to plan, but get a friend on side and tell them the plan. They can help you when the time comes.
GIRL POWER!!!
Hope this helps and have a great day/night!!!
GOOD LUCK ☼
2007-08-05 03:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared?? An being alone is a choice you have made, I'm alone an enjoy it. Get out an meet people unless you don't want to?
2007-08-05 09:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out,that is what you should do,don't feel guilty either,is he feeling guilty for all the times he hit you or made you feel like you are nothing?i don't think so,listen we are in this world once,you have been in misery for 20 years,you deserve to be happy for the rest of your life,you deserve to have some one love and respect you,move on you so deserve it
2007-08-05 10:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared that you are alone for that I am in the same boat. Just remember someone is waiting for you.
2007-08-05 09:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Cocco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? don't be scared and don't be alone....join company.......researches proved that people who spend many times alone are expected to get alzhiemers disease,,,,so enjoy ur self ....find ur self a job....learn a skill.....learn how to value ur self.....and know how pericious u are as a human being
2007-08-05 09:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by dream girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is probably a drunk or an addict so you both should seek help from maybe Alcoholics anonymous os such
2007-08-05 10:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋