K. well my boyfriend of 5 years/baby daddy of 2. Has a very bad habit of doing drugs. He lied to me over the last year about him not doing it. So I work nights and while at work he be hiding it and making me look stupid about not doing it. Should i forgive him or what.
2007-08-05 01:21:29 · 12 answers · asked by BaByCaKeS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get rid of him
2007-08-05 01:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what drugs your talking about, but i can tell you that drugs and a healthy family does not mix and will only get worse over time. If you chose to put up and don't give him the ultimatum, then its like your turning your back to it hoping it will go away. If i were you i would tell him to seek help or leave. because over time things will erode and you will have wished long ago you made a choice to better your family by him getting help or you moving on. Trust me when i say you must make a stand and move to a better situation for you and your kids especially them. they should not be around drugs.
2007-08-05 08:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ditch the guy and find someone who's smart enough NOT to kill himself slowly with drugs. He doesn't sound like a very responsible person and will probably be more of a headache in the end. If you want to stick by him, get him into rehab somehow.
2007-08-05 08:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say whether or not he has tried to clean up his act and get help. You have children with him? You need to make those kids your #1 priority and if he isn't going to get help, you have to get rid of him. Children deserve better than to live in the shadow of a drug addict and it will be very unhealthy and miserable for them and you. Move on girl, its tough to hear and do, but think of yourself and the kids.
2007-08-05 09:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't forgive him because he is going to lie forever, a drug user is the best liar and can't never stop. They can make all kind of stories and even cry but don't beleive because it is just an act....
2007-08-05 08:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more important question is what kind of parent are you for having this stupidity around your kids. You do realize you could lose custody of your children for having them in such an environment??
Users never change. Protect your kids and move out.
2007-08-05 08:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would leave him and take the kids and go and find a new life he is not going to stop and hes going to do as he pleases and this could be bad for the kids. i mean he could give them stuff or he could hurt them when hes under that stuff they have no idea what they are doing and that is horrible so remove him and live your own life. you don't need this with your kdis.
2007-08-08 21:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you hold him accountable. Make sure he knows that you will not tolerate it around the children. I have been here. And it rips your heart out to see someone you love mess up their life so bad. I wish you the best. Hang in there. Be strong, those kids needs you.
2007-08-05 08:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by booper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he a bad habit but maybe you help him give it up or convice him to go to get help or warn him about the effects it has on the kids and if he don't stop you will leave with the kids until he get his act together.
2007-08-05 08:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by go_april_go 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could lose your children if you knowingly have them around him and he is doing drugs. You need to not forgive him and let him go.
2007-08-05 08:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tanya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talke with elder of your and his family.I think he is kill himself slowly with drugs this is your responsibility to save him from this curse. if u save one humanbeing you save all the humanity. this is true saying.plz try to help out from this bad habit
2007-08-06 03:04:29 · answer #11 · answered by mehar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋