good or bad and why do you think they do
2007-08-05 00:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think men are the one that change after marriage,for the reason that they now have responsibilities, no more freedom like what they use to have,needs to be more punctual of being home,and yes can not hang around with old friends nor stopping by for a drink. Are this good or bad? it depends if a man really serious on being married.....
2007-08-05 03:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying, "Men enter marriage thinking their wife will never change, but she does. Women enter marriage thinking they can change their husband, but can't." I think that saying reflects a certain truth, but not the whole truth. We both change through the years in subtle ways. What keeps a marriage healthy is:
A.) Changing together in similar ways
B.) Accepting the changes of our partner
To answer the question you are asking though, and contradict the saying I started with, I think men change the most. We mature and different things become important to us. We do hit a mid-life crisis and regress some too. I think the key is finding that woman that will accept our crazy changes.
2007-08-05 07:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by stevenrfranklin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a good marriage neither will change more than the other but they will both change over the course of time until they become a perfect pair.
2007-08-05 07:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage does not mean that either of the parts stop developing or change. They both change equally. It is not dangerous these changes either. Embrace, accept and support the changes. Don't fight them. That is what marriage is all about.
2007-08-05 07:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the woman change a lot after marriage couse she is the one to cook clean the house wash clothe's ecc ecc when she was single her mother did all these things to her. mens when single they have there mother do things for them and after marriage there's the wife. :) this can couse many stress for the woman and stress make problems.
2007-08-05 07:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women change more because once they get married they try and change the man.
2007-08-05 08:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two don't both change, grow, progress together, then the marriage is doomed.
2007-08-05 07:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More women change...men revert.
2007-08-05 07:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
women as they have the kids and go through menopause, its bad.
2007-08-05 08:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by miss-cyprus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think men. bcoz they get what they want but they are never satisfied and want more from their life,
2007-08-05 07:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by siddharth s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋