I'm 21/ M and never had a girlfriend.Question is "Should I lose my virginity by paying someone?" -Thanks

Answer 1

Losing your virginity on the same day you get AIDs, priceless.

Answer 2

Honestly I know how you feel. I had a friend in your same position. Its actually up to you. Sex feels damn good, but masturbating to a porn is just as good and its free. Don't listen about all those HIV BS you will get from hiring an escort. The chances of you getting that from a girl is 1 in a 100,000 if the girl is HIV positive and thats not using a condom. Reason being is it has to travel up your penis whole which is pretty small. And on top of that you will hopefully be using a condom. So thus the chances of HIV is slim to none. HOWEVER, the real disease you should be worried about is HPV aka genital worts. This might not be detected, and if you get it, you won't even notice it either as women will see it at times, but not so much males. The thing is if you get HPV, you won't notice it and could give it you you're future gf thus giving her a greater risk for cervical cancer. This will result in you not having any babies from her. Flip side is if you have HPV, there is a vaccine for cervical cancer which she should take.

Long story short, its your life. Your still young and have time to attract girls. If you're fat, go to the gym and work out. If your a geek, get out and join a club or do an activity. Or another thing is money talks, be successful and girls will come. Girls are sort of gold diggers, but they do that because they want security. If all else fails then pay for a girl. Just remember that if you do that, the feeling will be short lived and you probably will want to go back again, meaning you will waste lots of money.

Answer 3

Yes. Do it or become a priest. You're at the age where you should have already developed social skills. If you haven't found someone by now, chances are you have social anxieties which could lead to a bad ending if you find a girlfriend and become too attached.

Pay them and get it over with. It will help you deal with the fact of not having that person there in the morning.

Answer 4

Who you loose it too is your choice, you shouldn't have to feel that it has to be to a 'special' someone just because its the 'norm'. If you do decide to pay a lady of the night, be selective in your choice, obviously paying more you tend to get a more attractive, exclusive lady. Find a lady that operates privately as they tend to be a little more personal. Once you have lost your virginity you will probably feel a little more confident and less stressed about fact of being a 'virgin'. Its decission that you need to make for yourself based on your own ideals and beliefs.

Answer 5

Aside from the fact that men have no virginity to lose, the problem is different.
In my opinion at your age you should look for some girlfriend mainly, so to find love and experiencing.
Sex with fee just is a drub event, maybe admissible if you only feel an urge to have sex setting free your animal instincts. Sincerely I could prefer a friend's hand pleasing to touch my glory, it's safer at least!

Answer 6

NO--could cost more for your $10 than you bargain for... I am a person who also was a Vir at the age of 21....I have no shame and neither do you. You can't do it with a stranger the only people that you can have sex with is your friends.... If you meet someone new and ya hit it off---tell her and let her pick your flower---be tickled pink.... Don't know she may be a Vir also.....Men have had this problem since being born and that is getting back in..... ... ..

Answer 7

Besides the fact that it is illegal, there are increased risks for contracting a sexually transmitted disease or infection such as HIV, Genital Herpes or Warts, Scabies, etc. Using a condom each and every time you engage in sexual activity including oral, anal, or vaginal sex can reduce the risk of STD transmission. However, no method is 100 percent effective, except abstinence. Incorrect use can lead to condom breakage or slippage, decreasing their effectiveness rate. While condoms provide a barrier between body fluids, they provide a lesser degree of protection against other STD’s such as genital warts or herpes, pubic lice, scabies, etc. that can be transmitted skin to skin contact. Transmission is possible if the infected area is not covered or protected by a condom. Sexually Transmitted Diseases, such as HIV, do not discriminate. Anyone can contract an STD if they engage in activities that can put them at risk for transmission with an infected person.

Answer 8

Not just no, but HELL NO! Listen, if you want to live long enough to enjoy your first time, you had better learn to make better decisions than that one! If you haven't had sex by now there is only one reason that I can see as the cause--it hasn't been a priority for you! You want to know something--it never should be! Oh I know, that is easier said for someone who has had sex, but listen, once you get into a seriously committed relationship your gonna find out that most of the sex goes out the door, once the novelty wares off! I'm divorced, a father, gay and have been through the promiscuous sex bit--and now I'm celibate because sex just ain't worth alot of the hassle that you wind up putting yourself through--the only good thing that ever came of sex for me is my daughter! Oh I had a few good times but, trust me, you'll have opportunities--that's for sure!

Want to know how to find out if someone is really worth your time? Find someone you just like to talk to and be around--and if it happens then it just happens--if it doesn't you won't care--good company beats the hell out of good sex anyday--and you can't buy that!

Answer 9

Well I was 18 & I never had a b/f so I tried the whole online dating thing & I did meet this guy who I had a rather short relationship with & did some stuff with him, but now he's just completely confusing me. But I suggest you try the whole online thing, if you can't find someone otherwise. at least it's better than hiring someone.

Answer 10

Well, how badly do you want to have sex? Bad enough to pay someone you don't know who could have diseases that could prevent you from sleeping with any other women lol? ;) Go for it if you think it's that important, but waiting for the right girl will pay off too.

Answer 11

Shan, I am going to answer this in a Christian view. Do not do it. Once you find the woman you truly love and want to give your all, then marry her and then you can make love. Do not throw yourself off the cliff. Because once you lead a lustful life, there is no turning back.