its me again thx for ur advices but i am still like that. help me i am 18 and i love a 41 old man who has married. its ridiculous but its like that i knew. he cares a lot pays attention , he is so sweet so kind . its not normal its sth more than that . i get shocked at first but now i love him . i do. we had never kissed or we had never slept with each other
plx help
2007-08-04 22:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's married, why would you want to break that apart? You need to move on.
2007-08-04 22:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Appono Astos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 18 year old is always fascinating to an older man ; fresh , innocent , naive . You are easy prey dear , potentially a nice bit on the side . You are Not in Love !!! You may be very flattered and drawn to the attentions of this man . Do you want to break up his marriage , steal him from his loving wife ; remember this relationship would be most unlikely to end in marriage .
Sooner or later you will be very hurt and disappointed .
End it now before it becomes more involved !!!
2007-08-05 07:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by kitiyapron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey looks like ur really having a hard time getting over this limerance of urs... Learn from my example... I am out of it and i think of it no more... Believe me, just some time and a little bit of ur effort... Try to avoid him and focus on something u want to achieve in life... Focus on ur ambitions.. He's not worth ur attention at this time... I have told u before and i will repeat it again... Give it some time... Ur surely to get over it!!! Jus that u need to find something that u thoroughly enjoy...wht i did was ... Paying crazy attention on my physical appearance... So i decided to make a fine regime... Gymming, yoga, Healthy lifestyle... and i was so happy to achieve my target that this "love" stuff seemed gross to me!!! All the best girl!!! And u will surely say one day
"What did i ever like in him??? " :)
2007-08-05 11:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is married.... he has his own family already... if u will continue seeing this married guy u really dont know what u r going to. u know its not right... so stop it... even its painful I know... u r still very young... u will meet that right guy as u explore ur life... dont do things that u know will hurt other people... its better to live a life knowing u never have done anything that hurt the feelings of others.... so girl just go on with ur life without that married guy... for sure u will have a happier and more peaceful life...
2007-08-05 06:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey sounds like hes a nice gentleman, but you need to stay far away from him. he is married--theres no future for you with him.Go out and date men closer to your own age hun,Mr. Right will come along eventually. And really marriage is not all its cracked up to be especially if you marry too young .enjoy life while you can, make a goal of getting a career, this will help you forget the man.
2007-08-05 05:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by momof8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love ur just attracted to him thts common in ur age but find some one whos is little elder thn u like guy of 20 or 21 it might b done, the person who is of 40's will hav a good nature but tht dosent mean tht ur in love with him n love doesnt only mean to kiss or to sleep so try to solve ur problem its easy............
2007-08-05 05:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by akram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to be with a man that old. just thin kwhen you are old he will be an old man. this man is married and therefore you need to just go away and find someone else more your age. please for your good and selfrespect move to something else. this man isn't for you he will never leave his wife and family most don't so keep moving
2007-08-08 21:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey find someone ur age. it will much greater pleasure exploring new avenues togather. it seems u r afraid of adventure, that's why u found an experienced person. make ur own way don't follow path laid out by others
2007-08-05 05:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by The Monk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's tough. they do say that age doesn't matter in love but in your case, i think the guys already happily married to his wife and you shouldn't really stand in the way of their love and happiness. besides, im sure you can find someone your age and be happy too! good luck!
2007-08-05 05:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by stargirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋