is it for their own protection or yours because you know that in the long run you will only end up hurting them or getting hurt by them?
2007-08-04 21:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Lazrus 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
one down one to go
2007-08-04 21:35:38 · update #1
Don't, by any means, try to believe for one second that your friends may want a choice in the matter.
That makes things entirely too easy.
2007-08-05 20:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by p37ry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually do this for both of the reasons you mentioned. I think that if a person feels that they are infuriated the only way to deal with it is to push the person away. But I also have a habit of doing the opposite as well and that is pushing people away when they are trying to care.
2007-08-05 05:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually for both reasons... I push toxic people away, because life is too short for me to be hurt...
I push toxic people away because, I'll hold it in for a long while, but when I lose my temper, I say terrible things (in a clam and polite manner, of course...)so I won't hurt them...
2007-08-05 04:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brat Sheila♥♫ - the Precocious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for their own protection because i will only end up hurting them...still i did end up hurting them though
2007-08-05 04:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by NoLongerHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer afraid of getting hurt, and i don't hurt anyone on purpose... so when i push others away, it's only because we don't click... and that happenes before any form of friendship is formed... i rarely push a family member or a friend away...! lol
2007-08-05 07:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by basharho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because I don't want them to be hurt.
My principle is let me hurt myself and be full of regrets rather than have them feel that way.
2007-08-05 12:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by xxon_23 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its for the protection of both parties.
2007-08-05 04:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what ur pushing them away 4...if ur pushing away because u will cheat, then thats benifitting them, even tho they may not see it that way. but just for no reason, its nots as beneficial to them, itll seem like its for ur own personal pleasure.
2007-08-05 04:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it for both reasons already.
But many people use to say it's for other's sake, while it actually is for their own sake.
2007-08-05 04:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because I like to follow my own feeling/rules
2007-08-05 04:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋