What should I do? Thank you for your help!!!?

Question

The special person and I love each other for 4 years. We went to undergrad college. It was tons of chemistry, but I don’t want to have a relationship; therefore, I pretended to ignore him.

For 3 years we had never spoken, just enjoy looking at each other from distances. Before my graduation I told him that I am leaving. Although we did not really know each other, but I knew he cared!

I was very sad because I miss him so much. I thought I was going to forget him because we will never see each other again. But with God wills... I found his myspace. He wrotes poetries about us. He claims he does not know me, but he loves me. He does not know where I was and what to do, but he is going to wait for me!

I love him with all my heart, but I don't think the relationship will work. I came to the U.S. for my education. I will finish my master next year. I must go back home---my parent wait for me.

What should I do? I must should between the love of my life and my family.

Thank Y

We are talking online very causal for a year, but we did not get a chance to see each other. We are now in difference colleges about 10 hours drives

Answer 1

You cared enough to look him up on myspace.
Are you on his friends list/contact?
Go ahead ask him to add you if not.
See where it goes.

~faith