Why do American males need someone "hot" to show them a supermarket?

Question

He came here on hols! It fell to me to meet him at the airport, place him into the place he rented, show how his keys worked and bathroom, and things, and where he could eat good and cheap, and where the supermarket was!
He arrived with the huge red blister under his lower lip, and since I met him, this lower lip is lowered in constant disdain.
He condescended to have me show him how to open and close the door, but when I told him that I wanted to show him where the supermarket was, and a couple of restaurants, he said disdainfully that he wanted someone "super hot" to show them to him!!! Why?

He has a week to stay here yet, and have been here for two days.
When he arrived, there were snacks for him in the fridge, and some
drinks, but these are quickly diminishing, and he can't find the
supermarket on his own, and I won't show him - I respect other people's beliefs. He is free though to find a super hot somebody to show him.

and I do not usually comment on appearances, but he is 38, 5'5, extremely puny and absolutely bald.

Answer 1

He's someone that a British writer wrote about in his book after doing some detailed touring of the U.S. He's masquerading as an adult while he's still mentally in 7th grade.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well, if he won't let you show him where things are, such as the grocery store.... then he's going to be very hungry. And that will be his own fault.

What really chaps my butt is that this jerk is representing MY country. We have enough of an image problem, without sending morons like this to a wonderful country like yours. What he really needs is a major dose of reality.... and it sounds like he just may be getting it very soon. (I'm sitting here laughing myself silly about that one.)

Not all American men are like that. Most men know how to show respect for other people and other cultures. It's called up-bringing. Obviously graciousness was one lesson his parents failed to teach him, or he failed to heed.

Answer 4

Why? Because he's a freakin' idiot!!! Please don't judge all the guys here by this one aberration. Most guys, that I know, are pretty cool. For the most part they are honest, hard-working, fun-loving (the part that sometimes gets them in trouble) and all very respectful of women. You can always tell who the idiot guys are because they don't have any female friends. He's a bug--just flick him off your mind.

Answer 5

Sorry you have to deal with this one. Please don't think that all American males are like that. There are jerks in every nationality.

Some people think that being out of their natural habitat gives them the space to misbehave. He knows perfectly well that he is. Feel free to tell him that you expect him to conduct himself professionally.

Best wishes.

Answer 6

YOU HAVE MY SYMPATHY! TELL HIM HE IS A JERK, SHOW HIM WHERE TO BUY MEDS FOR HIS LIP, AND FOOD . WISH HIM WELL AND SHOW HIM A HOTEL ROOM.

Answer 7

Just one answer for that. STUPID.

Answer 8

Dunno, I suppose its the same for any male from any country......
Perhaps not independent enough..?