2007-08-04 16:55:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
are you kidding me.. my hubby don't know chet!
2007-08-04 16:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgrl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Equal partnership within a marriage. It means team mate, not shipmate and there is no caption who has all the say. I say let the wife/female have some say and let it be a mutual decision. Other wise there will be a divorce because the wife will not take it. No one likes to be treated like that. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if you had to give your wife or girlfriend all of the say and have yourself. So why do you think it's alright in reverse???
And didn't you ask this question once before? Now your just repeating yourself for no logical reason. You know the answers your going to get, so why try again? Why try to change people? If your so strong to your own ways, then anyone else can be EQUALLY strong to their's
2007-08-06 22:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be easier to answer if you clarified the question:
What decision? - - -
Where to have the wedding?
When to have a first child?
Which parent stays home, if any?
What religion are we going to raise the child?
Who do I list as an emergency contact for my child?
Decision making as a whole should be based on some degree of common agreement between the couple.
For instance:
We both agree we need a shed. He wants the green one. I say, okay. (What do I care? It's his shed.)
Decision making should not require a degree in rocket science.
If a man can make a responsible decision with the good of his family as a goal, why shouldn't he be allowed to make a "final decision" on occasion?
2007-08-05 09:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, marriage is a partnership, just like a business and people are different and look at things differently, some solutions are obvious and others need a third viewpoint. Only the person that has the most logical idea toward solving whatever the problem might be should be declared the winner. (There is no winner) Just remember you love this person and if kindness doesn't work, buy both of them.
2007-08-05 00:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by AggieMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I think the person who is right should have the last say. And that is usually the husband. JUST KIDDING. If a married couple can't make a decision, get a third party to help.
2007-08-04 23:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a minor decision, like where take the car to get fixed, or whether to buy new clothes, or what brand of toilet paper to get, either can make the decision. If it's a major decision, such as whether to have another child, or what kind of car to buy or what school the children should go to, the decision should be mutual.
2007-08-05 20:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, not exactally! I feel both the husband and the wife should mutually agree on the decision.
2007-08-05 00:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The husband has the decision in his mind, but he respects and talks to his wife about it, and they both come to the decision together
2007-08-05 00:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by ~SheSul~ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way! A decision in a marriage should be mutually agreed upon.
2007-08-06 01:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Panda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be from both. B\c at the end of the day the decision for the both of you's to benefit from. It should be a mutual decision.
2007-08-05 00:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! The guy didn't marry himself so
he should be secure enough to allow his significant other to have an equal voice. Marriage
is an union not a take over.
2007-08-05 00:02:51 · answer #11 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋