How can I help my 2 pump chump?

Question

Hubby and I have a good sex life but for a few years now he is "loosing control" too quickly. On average sex lasts for no more than 2 minutes.

Couple of factors to consider:
-He is 38
-Beacuse we have young kids we only have sex about once a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. (he says if we had sex more it would help but I think that he just says that because he's embarrassed).
-I tend to be a dirty talker in bed. I think my highly imaginative talk sometimes pushes him over the egde but I like to talk and if I don't talk, I am much less likely to reach the big "O"
-He has no problem getting an erection and does not ejaculate prematurly. He just can't last for more than a minute or two. And even during the brief sessions, he tends to hold back from really getting into it because he is anxious he will get over excited and loose it.

Any suggestions?

Answer 1

I would first check in with him about his libido, and what level of sexual desire he would like. Secondly, while more sex would be good. so is masturbation. A loaded gun can be quick to go off ;^)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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How can I help my 2 pump chump?
Hubby and I have a good sex life but for a few years now he is "loosing control" too quickly. On average sex lasts for no more than 2 minutes. Couple of factors to consider: -He is 38 -Beacuse we have young kids we only have sex about once a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. (he says if we had...

Answer 4

I really wish I could help you because my husband has the same problem as well. I do know it has nothing to do with how often it happens, because we can have sex once a week or 3 times a day. In the end the same thing happens each time it is litterally less than 5 minutes at most. Sorry i couldn't be of more assistance. Heather

Answer 5

I know that sex with kids around can be a hassle, but try more foreplay and get the first bullet out of his gun- you can fill in the exact details- then he can return the favor while getting him aroused again.

At his age he may have an issue with the rest but with your help and participation it will assist the "problem" with the best results. He needs to learn the different levels of pleasure, he can (or you can) masturbate but not to orgasm; take a mental number from one to ten (ten being orgasm) of the different stages in order to learn the point of no return. Masturbate to that point, then stop or do some other form of stimulation, repeat. Once that is understood he can switch up his actions during intercourse (thrusting patterns, angles, etc) to keep himself from reaching the level of ten.

This is a basic intro of Tantric sexuality.

Answer 6

Change positions

Change positions

Change positions

In the time it takes to change positions, it won't effect you very much at all.

But that short break, will make the male last alot longer.

Think of it as taking the keddle off the burner.

And there are lubes that can slightly deaden the nerves in the penis, this will make him last longer.

Answer 7

Dirty talker? Yeah baby!!! There are varied creams that will help him prolong the event. Also, if he perhaps takes care of other business first for you downtown.... you know, that might increase your period of arousal and delay for him a bit.

Answer 8

What ur hubby says has some meaning to it. Practice will increase the duration.

In any case if u r getting orgasm, why bother about it.

Answer 9

beat him off first then when he is reloaded have sex and see if he lasts any longger

Answer 10

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