2007-08-04 13:58:19 · 39 answers · asked by Bunny Boiler 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am... it was never their fault. Sh*t just happens...
2007-08-04 13:59:36 · update #1
Yes, I agree with you. I have spilled my heart to friends and such and before I knew it I was bashing my parents so bad they sounded like monsters. I do feel really bad about it. Now that I'm a mother myself and have made my share of mistakes I view things a bit differently. Plus I love my parents with all my heart and if something happens to them I will have all that to think about.
2007-08-04 14:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by cindy h 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not. I didn't ever blame them for anything that wasn't their fault, and still don't blame them for a lot of stuff that was their fault. They were really terrible parents. I understand that a lot of it was because they didn't know any better, but that doesn't make what they did to me less wrong.
I don't hate them though, which I think is an incredible thing.
2007-08-04 16:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called coincidence. In the big picture bad things happen to people pretty much at random, regardless of their religious beliefs. You are attempting to find a reason where there is no causality. This is just another version of the same mistakes of perceiving the world and interpreting it that everyone has and that are one of the primary causes of superstitious beliefs, including those found in religions.
2016-05-18 02:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by rosanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...... not much anymore, come to think of it everything bad they did was good, because I would never know what not to do with my son. Plus I am slightly different then most people. I was never supposed to make it out of childhood let alone have a child of my own. Parents don't get manuals on how to raise a terminal ill child. My parents choked they could not cut it. My little guy has my condition, really messed up. And I have never failed him, in fact I am a full time single father. see every time my dad failed me or every time I was alone. Like mom leavening me alone at the hardest time in my life as a child so hard in fact that that one moment forever dominated my destiny. Which was" I am alone" "grow up kid" and "never forget." See she left to console my fathers grief that I was incurable. My relation ship with my parents is alright we don't fight we are cool, and getting better, but as a child i never felt safe every doctor appointment was grim just very scary, my family just could not deal with it. Hell my wife bailed, its just me and the little guy, and if my family was perfect i might let the pain in my life control me and prevent me from giving my little guy the world. Remember we are, our parents keep the good and try and understand the bad.... it mite not seem so bad later.....in fact it might be for a reason.
2007-08-04 14:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by kackerot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes me think because right now I am going through so much and I blame them for it because they are the only ones to blame, I was only 12 and not old enought o know that what I was doing would effect me now and I asked my mom why she didnt do anything about it and she said she didnt know what to do. I do feel bad for blaming them but I also blame my sisters as well for not doing anything. They clearly saw me gain weight and they did nothing. I just have so much anger inside and I know I shouldnt blame them but I do.
2007-08-04 14:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame my parents for anything bad that has happened to me. I am in charge of my own life and take responsibility for my actions.
2007-08-04 14:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do. There was once when I left home and sat at the beach for 3 days just to think of whatever I've done with my life, whatever mistakes I've made, I just felt useless then. It was when I recalled the scoldings and reminders my parents had told me then do I realised that I've made a grave mistake.
All I did was to go back home and apologised to my parents for whatever I've done. Not only did they not apprehend me, they consoled me and gave me the encouragement to do what I've been doing lately : Studying and Working.
Cheers :)
2007-08-04 14:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Larry L - Hi Everyone :D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes...but when you are young it's like nothing is your fault and you always have to blame someone for everything that goes wrong.
2007-08-04 14:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by LaVidaLoca <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've never blamed my parents for any of the **** thats happened in my life. my mistakes are my own. there are a lot of them but they aren't my parents fault.
2007-08-04 14:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by emoboyzrhot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame my parents for all the bad things that've happened to me... because it's not always their fault!
2007-08-04 14:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋