Please spare me the name calling and judgements...I already feel awful. I am very well aware of the seriousness and the consequences of my actions. But would of, should of, could of. Now what?
2007-08-04 13:45:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont know why ppl on here are telling u to stick it out because thats the stupidest thing to do...I know u have already made one mistake...dont make another by staying.....dont WASTE ur or ur spouse Time....
2007-08-04 14:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have not explained why you feel it is a mistake for a good logical answer. I have been married twice and I didn't realize until after 20 years and a divorce that I never should have married him in the first place but was lonely and 30 years old at that moment. Granted not all marriages are perfect, there are ruts, routines etc, that we get tired of and make life seem unexcited. Have you tried to break those routines, enjoy something different together? You need to evaluate and try before throwing in the towel and make sure you are doing it for the right reasons and it's not a blind excuse.
2007-08-04 21:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by frizzle1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow to be honest with you I feel for you very much. However, thats not were my answer lies with you. I think you should very much come clean with your partner. No matter how much it hurts. The pain will go away but living in a home were you are just not happy is not healthy for either of you. I say forget your vows they are not worth your happyness. You have made some bad choices That my friend does not make you a bad person. what makes a bad person is someone who lies about those choices. good luck to you....
2007-08-04 20:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by futurecreationsusa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is your life.. Given to you by your parents thru GOD.. so you got married and now your have realised that it is a mistake..
Be true to yourself.. for at the end of the day it is you that matters most.. take time and speak to God.. speak to your inners self and deep within you in an answer.. whatever decision you make you will still be you in the Eyes of your maker..
If you have to leave be thankful that you were strong enough to leave andand you decide to stay be thankful that you had enough courage to stay.. which ever route you take you will still end up at where you were meant to be..
God Bless
2007-08-04 20:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married,any children? Sorry I can't give you good answer, I'm in the same situation myself. I have 2 great kids and married 40 yrs. I was really young and stupid. I stuck it out this long for the kids. I hope you find the wisdom to do what you have to do.
2007-08-04 20:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Deeday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to her to try and work it out. Get some counselling. Divorce is always a much later option. You can turn this around if you get it in your head your going to change things. Good luck. God bless
2007-08-04 21:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mama of 4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not love your spouse you should be honest and say so. believe it or not living a lie is unfair to your partner as well all other involved parties. be honest so both of you can get on with your lives and stop wasting time of all who will be or are affected.
untrusting
2007-08-05 00:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by softtpurrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, life is too short. Come clean, the truth will set you free.
2007-08-04 20:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Misery enjoys company. Why stay an be miserable?Have a life be fare to him an let him find some1 that will love him??
2007-08-04 21:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want my honest opinion, I think you owe it to yourself and your spouse to make the most of things. Who knows, you both could get to really like each other.
2007-08-04 20:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋