I figure this should be a law. BY LAW when a woman ties down a man in marriage, she should at least perform her duty. If not, then cheating should be alowwed BY LAW.
What do you think?
2007-08-04 12:37:27 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you go do us all a favor and go play in traffic. You have got to be the biggest idiot I have ever seen.
If it's our "duty" to put out after marriage, then it should be your "duty" to stay committed, keep us happy, provide everything for us financially, support us (even on our bad days), give us daily massages, clean up after dinner, wash dishes, clean our cars, make sure the gas tank is full, lift anything that weighs over 10 lbs for us, tell us everyday how sexy we are and how much you love us, watch the kids several nights a week so we can blow off some steam, mow the grass the first time we ask, take the trash out on your own, do anything around the house that requires any kind of tool use, stop bitching at us so much, stop thinking that we owe you something, stop thinking that you own us and that we live our life for you.....need I go on??
Before you consider making an @ss out of yourself next time, why don't you learn how to spell. You've mispelled "women" (in another post) and "allowed" in this one. Are you even smart enough to comprehend what you're talking about?? I'll wait a minute so you can get out your dictionary and look up the word......
C-O-M-P-R-E-H-E-N-D
..enough said!
2007-08-04 13:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
First of all, married or single women do not perform duties. That is probably why you are not getting none. If there is a physical attraction, it will happen. If you make her feel like a woman, it will happen. Should there be a law that a woman should cheat if her husband is not pleasing her? There is a law that states you can get a divorce on the grounds of adultery.
2007-08-04 19:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by flirty30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ties down a man? No woman can force a man to marry her. if that's the way you feel about marriage, as a trap, then don't marry.
Also, (DUH) a woman is not there for just sex. If there is some problem in the sexual area, then it must be addressed through therapy, etc. If a couple is incompatible and a solution cannot be found despite honest attempts, then they might consider dissolving the marriage. Cheating is not allowed in marriage. if any law should be made, it should be a one stating that all cheaters-men and women alike- be hanged. :-p
2007-08-04 20:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by G.V. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should be, BY LAW. I question men wanting to stay married to a woman that isn't attracted to them, or wants to have sex. And since marriage is seen as such a commitment, and there's that whole "sanctity" issue, regarding monogamy and commitment... I think the man should suck it up and get divorced if he's not getting any.
And for the record, it's not woman's "duty" to have sex with a man, even her husband. Sex is a privilege, not a right. Just like a driver's license, or voting. In fact many times, the man gets a veto.
2007-08-04 19:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by i_have_cheese_dreams 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your fault that you’re not exciting her. You know a marriage is a two way street it’s not always one person at fault.
You and your wife should try to seek a marriage counselor if you're having intimacy issues. Sex should not be the primary factor of what makes or breaks a marriage and if so you guys got married for the wrong reasons.
Cheating is pathetic, be a man and just get a divorce if you're not getting what you want from your wife.
2007-08-04 19:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking that it is a pretty stupid idea. If the husband or wife is not performing what you consider a marital duty, then it is up to the other spouse to sit down with their partner and find out what the problem is. Cheating is something that should be avoided. Too many people can get hurt.
2007-08-04 19:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all I think your an idiot did you ever think that maybe it is your fault she doesnt put out in the first place!! Come on is that the only reason why you would get married? To get some? you should have stayed single for that! You obviously dont love her then there is more to marriage than sex! Try getting her some flowers or taking her out for a date night! and judging by the way you put your question the problem is you not her!!!!
2007-08-04 19:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by freckleface 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By whose standards?
Yours?
Actually - in my book - no two people should enter into a relationship if they don't enjoy sex, unless they're both a couple of fanatic, far-right religious fundies who can't admit to even touching THEMSELVES.
And, of course, if YOU can't go "downtown," don't you dare expect your partner to do the same.
I'm not saying that a relationship cannot exist and flourish WITHOUT sex; just that most healthy, mature couples enjoy fair amounts of sex ~ shared and solo.
Sex is healthy; as normal as water and air.
But cheating?
Naw, dude.
Nice try, but no cigar.
2007-08-04 20:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by John Doe 1st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duty? your funny.... Just find you a young hot chick to **** and get a divorce..... She might be cheating on you and has had enough sex for tha day before you get home... Ever think of that?
2007-08-04 19:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think not. Do you romance her, or expect her to do it all? You need to take her out on a date and don't act all horney and expecting of her to perform. Lack of libido is a very complicated issue. You need to talk to her calmly about it. Ask her if there is anything you can do to help her. You need to tell her you love her and still want to have romance with her. But she needs your help, not your criticisms and an attitude.
2007-08-04 19:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋