my boyfriend left me to stay with his suppo to be lesbian co-worker, they live together, work together and go to the gym together. i am devastated heartbroken misserable and don't know where to go
he is happy go lucky.
do you believe things will come back to him and her?
he came back for 3 days and left me to be with her that was 4 weeks ago he took my live away from me i wanted to marry this man.
2007-08-04 11:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is this person really a lesbian or is that what they want you to think! i think you should move on you are in a rut and need to get out of it pick yourself up girl and get over him !
2007-08-04 11:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by allan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't agree with me now, but believe me, you are so lucky that you did not marry this person (I certainly can not call him a man). He apparently has feelings for this co-worker that are not on the same level as his feelings for you. Thank your lucky stars that you found out before you married him and children became involved.
2007-08-04 18:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no that hole karma thing coming bac to u has a twist to it . did he give u a reason to leave and not to be with u any more? and y did u let him come back for 3 days? let it go i know easier said then done!!! but he could just have been tired of something serious or he may have really loved u but maybe that M word pushed him away and he didnt know how to tell u that he was feeling pressured???and really wasnt wanting that.
2007-08-04 18:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to accept who he really is and count your blessings you found out before you married him. There are a lot of single, nice, good looking guys out there. Go find a good one, and remember to date them a long, long time, because when you first meet someone, you are only meeting their representitive. It takes a good long while for the real them to show up. A broken heart does recover, on to better things.
To answer your question,yes. What you put out, is what you get back. So good idea to do good, so good will come back to you.
2007-08-04 18:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So now you need to be strong and move on. He is not a trust worthy person and doesn't really care about your feelings. Pick yourself up. He is not marriage material be glad you found out before you married him and had kids.
2007-08-04 18:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman that your boyfriend is living with is a lesbian, and you don't like it, then why not find yourself someone else that would not leave you. Why would your boyfriend choose a lesbian to live with? That I do not understand.
2007-08-04 18:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a great bliever in Karmic Destiny&believe me,those two deserve each other!Two duplicitous,sneaky,dishonorable people together?They're bound to destroy each other so give them a wide berth,why should you be the one w/scorched backside?You are well rid of the pair of them!Grow a pair&take your life back!
2007-08-04 18:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by TL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and be glad you found out before marriage. She is not a lesbo. And yes, what goes around comes around. I firmly believe it. My ex-husband was cruel to me, and at times our daughter, he is now in a miserable marriage, but I am in a happy and healthy relationship. Sweetest revenge of all!!
2007-08-04 18:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by msims52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As they say:
What Goes Around, Comes Around.
And I definitely believe that.
His time will come.
She will probably end up leaving him for another woman.....:P
2007-08-04 18:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea it's your choice of were you want to stay if it is not a good environment for you go stay some were else. Good luck!
2007-08-04 18:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋