Yes we already had sex ( ok I can hear it now ) of course, but something happened were I ran him off. I have made attempts to get back with him, but he said to me that he doesn't like drama. Therefore he wants nothing to do with me and had his number changed. He just completely shut it down. But I still think about this guy to the point of obsession and I have never acted this way over a man before. What the hell is wrong with me. I want to stop thinking about him but I cant. I have been appraoched by other men for dates since him but I am just not interested. So why am I crazy about him. I want to stop this. Is there a spell or something that will help....LOL...but seriously
2007-08-04 11:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
not a love spell
2007-08-04 11:52:38 · update #1
Eh, it's probably karma and you need to learn to let go of it.
2007-08-04 12:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Malachi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Laws of attraction sweetie.
We are always attracted more to what we can not have.
Love him and eventually allow yourself to hurt over the breakup. I think you haven't actually allowed your feelings of hurt come forward yet. When they do eat chocolate cry in your pillow watch soppy love story's to make you cry then..when you feel your eyes are so swollen and red from crying that they may pop out....
ONLY then do something for you. Get you hair done, nails, get a new outfit and go out, with your friends not with another man. Though if you fancy one through the night tis not a bad thing :)
Time heals!
Pain...this too will pass.
Peace and Love (yourself before others)
2007-08-04 12:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he was able to make love to you and just walk away from you.. Just like that then he was just using you for what he can get from you and you should have no problems forgetting that guy.... And it seem like he was you first sexual partner by the way you are sounding.....But if he was or was not you really would be better of forgetting all about him for he will just only use you time and time again and that will get old rather quickly... So just smile and take a deep breath and get on with your life for if he hasn't already he will prove to be not worth your concern real soon.............................................................................................
2007-08-04 13:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think first off you should calm right down. Why not write a letter, dont pour out all your feelings, just keep it straight and sensible. Say to him that you are in love with him and would like to make contact with him and take things slowly. Apologise sincerely for anything that went on before and ask him to find it in his heart to put the past behind you both and start from scratch.
If he answers you and will meet, keep it light, friendly and calm, take things slowly.
If he refuses to answer, then you have to walk away, head held high and realise he was not meant for you. Dont jump in to another relationship straight away. Throw yourself in to work, study, interests that you have. Then you will find that someone will come alog that is just as special and meant for you
2007-08-04 11:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Seriously? No spell.
You just have to make an effort to realize he's done with you and that's it.
If the obession continues, seeking short term counseling to help you get beyond him and more productive with your life would be the best recommendation I can give you.
2007-08-04 11:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cheese Fairy - Mummified 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he changed his number dear
don't humiliate yourself by trying to make further contact
by doing so you are just keeping (trying to keep) a very small hold on him just in case something decent may come of things.............nothing decent will come of this......he has already turned his back on you.....
I don't know why some people get into our "systems" and it is so much harder to let go of them then others.........so hard that we sometimes resort to all sorts of foolish and demeaning or degrading things........please don't do it dear. You may think of him for years to come.....but your life will get better if you just "let him go" and learn to live without him..............he's right about the drama you know..........and you are keeping it going by trying to get noticed by him......don't do it.............cry, scream (into your pillow).........cry again......and let it go.......
as best that you can......
I think that you have alot of things to think over also.......and maybe a bit of maturing to do on your end.....
take care and much good luck!
2007-08-04 14:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by amber 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you may have a problem with your own sense of self or self worth and o may have some codependency isues. maybe you have a problem with rejection . lots of people cannot deal with the fact of being dumped, they have usually been the one doing the dumping before and its a shock to the system..
2007-08-04 11:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by plagam_extremam_infligere 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love spells are REALLY hard to do and im a beginner so I CANT HELP srry
2007-08-04 11:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you lost your virginity to him then you will never 4 get him because its normal and i feel the same way am wit my 1st and we have 3 years 2gether, if he wasn't your first then he treated you very good and everything that you looked for in a man you found in him. good luck girl and if its love you feel for him them figth for what you want love is very powerful, eny questions feel free ask.
2007-08-04 13:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by mizzyg204 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What we had and don't have now always loses the reason it is gone. Then we feel sorry....but, mostly for ourselves.
2007-08-04 12:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Terry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋