my exfiance wants to take our 15 year old for the weekend the only things i have a problem with the only time he has anything to do with him when it is conveniant for him when he says he going to call he dont and he dont stay in a seariouse relationship he lies and cheats and he also drinks alot am i wrong for not letting him take him unsupervised he had nothing to do with him when he was a baby and the last 2years he came back into his life what should i do.
2007-08-04 09:59:46 · 2 answers · asked by eppler1974 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is your son wanting to go?
I feel for you, I would be worried too.
Esp, since you said he is a drinker, I assume he could be an alcholic?
The only advice I can give, is to listen to your gut feeling on this one. If you are not comfortable with this, then say no, not for an entire week-end. And if you do let your son, you should know where they are going and what they will be doing.
And you should be able to contact your son when ever you feel like it, to make sure he is ok and for a piece of mind.
Good luck.
~faith
2007-08-04 17:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOT LET HIM TAKE HIM FOR THE WEEK-IN OR EVEN OVER NIGHT, HE IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED, IF HE WAS STABLE FOR A LONG TIME WITH THE SAME WOMEN AND JOB I WOULD SAY MAYBE, BUT THAT IS NOT THE WAY IT IS, SO I WOULD SAY NO.
2007-08-05 05:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Janet G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋