So, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We have two kids. One day I was on myspace and some girl left me a message asking if I would be bothered if she were to hang out with my boyfriend. Being that I don't know this girl, I said yes I would have a problem. So because of this I decided to go on his myspace account to see what he was doing and I found out that he messages like tons of girls all day!! I got upset and confronted him but he says he's just talking to them, which is true. But honestly, my boyfriend is pretty easy and I'm sure if any of those girls offered to meet up with him, he would go along with it. I am hurt and even though he hasn't cheated YET do you think I should leave him? I have come to my own conclusion that maybe he is unhappy with me but he says no. I dont know what to do.
2007-08-04 09:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I certainly wouldn't like it either if my Husband was talking with other girls on the net.
If you don't like it, tell him to stop. That its just not ok with you.
Tell him how it makes you feel and how it makes him look.
It looks like he is wanting something from other girls.
If he doesn't change...
Then you may need either counseling or the relationship should end.
~faith
2007-08-04 17:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave him, but I would definately have a heart to heart with him. Tell him how it made you feel realizing that he is talking with all of these other girls. He may not be doing anything else with these girls, but he still needs to respect you and your feelings.
2007-08-07 11:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Huntermom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him another chance and talk to him tell him how you feel and then if he does the same thing agian then you could let him go
2007-08-08 13:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by maria7959@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋