She didn't bleed the first time*
would a guy know that she's not a virgin?
Granted she's not but could he tell the difference?
2007-08-04 08:15:26 · 17 answers · asked by . 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Even of you DID have sex and you waited 7 years to do it again, it is said that it takes 7 years of abstinence to "become a virgin again"...
2007-08-04 08:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ridiculous 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
At the end of the day, some people bleed the first time from sex, others don't - I didn't. And I know others that didn't as well. Its an urban legend that as soon as you have sex you lose pints of blood. If a guy is shallow and idiotic enough to fall for that crap then you've found yourself the wrong one. Its possible that he wouldn't be able to tell the difference, however honesty is the best policy. And btw, waiting 7 years doesn't make you a born-again virgin. One you have sex thats it.
2007-08-04 09:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by afterbirth07 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What would be the difference if you're not planning on telling him anyhow?
It would obviously be a one night stand with someone you don't care about. If it were a trusting loving relationship where it might matter if you were a virgin or not, you would be loving and trusting enough to tell your partner the truth.
2007-08-04 10:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to really "tell" is the breaking of the hymen and apparently yours was gone already.....
But I can't say lying about something like that is a good idea, which apparently is your plan.
I would just not bring it up, and not lie if it does come up. Any one who rejects you on that basis is not worth being with.
2007-08-04 08:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by starrystarrynight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can tell is your doctor. Many girls don't bleed the first time they have sex so don't worry if you don't want them to know, they won't!
2007-08-04 10:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Naw i dont think so!!! I didnt even bleed the first time i had sex but its GOOD 2 b truthful if he really cares bout u he wouldnt matter 2 him either way!!!
2007-08-04 08:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by sbapplebottom18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really, unless she told him she wasn't. She still hasn't done it enough to "loosen up" enough for him to actually tell, so it wouldn't feel any different to him & just because you don't bleed doesn't mean anything either, not all girls bleed their first time, like you've already said (sorry not trying to be crude)
2007-08-04 08:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wait even a couple months even weeks.. some guys will still infact pass you for a virgin. Don't listen to that whole 7 year bull.. that was old.. stuff.. that was never true.
2007-08-04 08:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by 140friendmo23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most girls don't bleed the first time form tampon use, masturbation etc. So you probably could lie adn get away with it with no one the wiser, but why bother?
2007-08-04 17:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dylan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lots of people dont bleed
i read in a magazine once that you can also break the thingy with a tampon or if you play a lot of sports
idk if thats true but....idk
good luck
2007-08-04 14:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋