So i found out im pregnant and im 19. I havent told anyone yet. I was wondering if i should tell the father of the baby. I know i should, but i already know what is going to happen. nothing. he is moving out of state for college and im going back to nyc for school. I know he wont be involved he is a jerk. we havent even seen eachother in about two weeks. so were not even talking. I plan on prob doing adoption. abortion is not an option and i dont know how i could keep the baby. and he would never find out, i will be in nyc for a year. so. what do u think should i tell him?
also....he is def the father i have only been with him no one else ever so... yes def the father no doubt.
2007-08-04 07:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
yes tell him it cause him thinking with his penis that got u into this mess so he should know and he should be taking care of his baby even if he was going to college. when he choose to have sex without a condom he was ready to change his life so he should be where ever his baby is and take care of it like a man!!
2007-08-04 07:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by D-LOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
permit's assume for a 2nd which you stay in a technology fiction action picture, wherein the two intercourse can get pregnant. Now, think of your ex is pregnant, and you'd be a mom, and your ex does not inform you which you have a newborn on the way. How do you sense? Have your rights been violated by utilising this loss of information? (hint: specific) Now, back in the worldwide the place in basic terms women folk can get pregnant, and you're pregnant... As to the abortion concern: it is your determination. Many single mothers make the alternative daily to discern solo. Many single fathers coparent with their youngster's single mom. Barring any extraneous components, or his option to be uninvolved, your ex receives a say in many stuff concerning this newborn. no be counted if his newborn is easily cared for, what the youngster's academic opportunities are, even religious coaching (those are issues worked out after the child is born, your community county lawyer will supply help to the two arise with and report a parenting plan). He additionally HAD a say in no be counted if to hold a newborn into the worldwide. That determination got here (with the objective to talk) and went, whilst he, a guy with no vasectomy, had intercourse with a woman who has a uterus and a minimum of one ovary. it is your determination and your physique. And no, asserting he needs you to get an abortion won't absolve him of his usual jobs (economic, and so on.)
2016-10-09 05:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first person to tell is the father of your baby.
At 19 years old you shouldn't need to be afraid of your dad for being pregnant you are a woman.
After saying that your father may be a bit upset at the fact that you are pregnant at 19 yrs.
Your only problem really is that you are supposed to be studying, that's going to affect you personally to some degree.
2007-08-04 07:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by sidestepper11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your right to keep this a 'secret.' it's not just your child - it's your child and HIS as well. it's the same as if he got another girl pregnant while he was with you - wouldn't you want to know since you're involved with him so that you can decide for yourself what is best? also you want to think about your child and what is best for them - that is the hardest part of being a mother imo (even though I don't have children yet), is the ability to do what is best EVEN when it goes against what you may want personally.....next time take the proper precautions in bed so that you don't further hinder your life and that of an innocent person who can't make decisions for themself and will be burdened with a mother and father who can't either. take care.
2007-08-04 07:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course,tell him and see what you have to decide for the future concerning the baby,and next time you better use the condom or keep your leg closed. That's the consequence !!!!
2007-08-04 07:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to! He is every right to know. He is the father of the child.
2007-08-04 08:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be right if you didn't tell him. It's his baby too. Maybe you should've thought about that before you went to bed with him.
2007-08-04 08:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you need to tell him it is his baby as much as it is yours. he has the right to know his own child.
2007-08-04 07:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋