the deceased will appear in your dreams?

Question

any one of you believe that your love ones who jus passes away will come and find us in our dream? wad if they do not come and find you? does that mean he/she doesn't want to see/talk to you anymore? or is this just a natural body system that it would react as we were too sad over the death of our love ones?

Answer 1

yes, on occassion I have had visits from my dad and mom in dreams. the dream I had of my mom (who died of cancer) was so vivid it was like she was there with me.....she told me "heaven is a beautiful place" and after that dream I was at peace with her death. My dad doesn't show up often in dreams. He likes to mess with our lights - and has for the past 25 years since his death. Not kidding. I am serious. We even had electricians come in to check our system. my daughter has experienced it with me too so I know I'm not nuts. My mom moves pictures and things too ( I actually went to a medium after her death to ask if was she who kept turning my wedding pic around. she told me yes. she was angry with us because my sister was giving my stepdad a hard time about material things after she died. Her message, was "leave Peter alone, he is suffering more than you know" according to this lady.) My husband thought I was nuts. But he believes it now. Because he experienced it for himself. We would "watch" the pic, leave the room, come back and it'd be facing the other way. He got freaked out.

On the anniversary of my dad's death. I looked up at our kitchen light and said, Hi dad, I miss you. sure enough, the light started going on and off. And then my daughter (7 at the time) joined in and said Hi grandpa. Sure enough the light went on and off again. Finally I said, OK dad, I know you're here, stop. And it stopped. We've also had other wierd things happen too - too long to list.

Remember, in dreams there are no boundaries. I definitely believe that is a common ground where the dead can "speak" with the living.

Answer 2

From your question, it sounds like you have lost someone close to you. I don't know if it was recently or awhile ago, but just be patient with yourself.

Some of my relatives have told me stories about experiencing very realistic dreams after the death of a loved one. My personal opinion is not that the dead loved one is "coming back," but that the grievers are still working through the impact of the death.

I have had my own experiences with dreaming about a dead loved one. My mother passed away when I was 16 (I am 23 now) and a few months ago I started having vivid dreams about my mother.

My mother was always alive in the dreams and would have no concept that she had ever died. When I would ask her where she had been all these years she would say something like, "Oh, I've been on vacation, but I'm back now." I would feel sad when I woke up from these dreams because I would realize that she was not really "back from vacation" and I couldn't go back to sleep afterwards.

I kept hoping that one of the dreams would give me some kind of closure. Then one night a month ago I had a dream that she was a zombie. She was dead, but more "undead." Her skin was sallow and her eyes looked like a dead fish's. I won't go into it, but it got worse. It was kind of like seeing her die again, VERY graphically.

The night after the "zombie dream" I had a dream that I was driving on a highway away from my mother. It was early morning and I could barely see through a thick curtain of fog. Then I took an exit off the highway and I was driving under the biggest rainbow that existed, that only I could see. The song "I Can See Clearly Now" came on the car radio full blast. For the first time since she'd died, I woke up from a dream about my mother feeling happy. I felt that I had really been in that car and seen the rainbow. (It was also significant because one of my mom's favorite songs, "The Rainbow Connection," played at her funeral.)

For me, the dreams (first the disturbing one and then the uplifting one) were a spiritual experience about letting go of my mother and the pain her death caused. Since it happened, she has not appeared in my dreams. I don't really think she was giving me "messages from beyond," but I think that my own psyche was telling me it was time to move on. I know some people will say she came back to help me, but I suppose it depends on your own personal belief system.

If you have not had dreams about the deceased, I wouldn't worry about it. You are still working through the issues surrounding the grief, but I don't think your loved ones are shunning you. Best of luck to you. :)

Answer 3

Your question lies in the realm of parapsychology. No answer exists other than opinions. My suggestion would be for you to set up an appointment with a counsellor or psychologist and get some therapy if this is a concern of yours.

Answer 4

You need to understand that this type of gift (seeing relatives/friends who have crossed over) comes through a bloodline. sometimes they come beck to tell you things Listen carefully and pass the message along if it needs to be. Don't be afraid, spirits can't hurt the living.

Answer 5

yes, they appear in your dreams, they also appear while u r awake you just got to know the signs, loved ones alway will visit u weather u know it or not , u can usually tell by the smell(a special colone, powder, that they wore) and every once in a while u look up and u thought u saw somebody is usually a good sign. also when they appear in a dream, they do not talk even if u r talking to them.

Answer 6

I find it hard to determine the scientific aspect or astronomical subject that you desire us to discuss
in this question. So, I can only surmise that you wish
us to quote that old line...Ashes to ashes, dust to dust.