I heard few months back that its not morally wrong as long as i don't have a gf at the meantime.
I am currently getting to know a gal but unsuccessful at the time being and we stay as friends. I still haven't stop praying about it and somehow the feelings is relatively unique which I can't explain. Nevertheless I am giving myself 2 more years since I figure out I am pretty serious about her. While at the meantime I need to get things done for my life priorities.
There is another gal who rejected me prior but for the past 1 week since I apologise to her for some events, she seems to be keen in meeting me up and been giving me missed calls. I must admit I feel lonely but I refrain from taking initiative to text or call her unless she do so. The initial feelings no longer there but I am willing to meet her as a friend as she asked many times and I am touched by her sincerity.
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2007-08-04 06:38:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't believe it is wrong for a single guy to date more than one woman at a time...however, he should have the decency to let the other women know that he is dating more than one. Now, if he is going steady or is a boyfriend to a woman, and is still dating other women at the same time, then that is not good news for any of them. I found myself in that situation just before I ended up dating another rotten guy, before ending up with Brett (my current and final partner). The guy I was going with had told me he had no girlfriend and I stupidly believed him, despite all the warnings from the people that knew him/worked with him. However, he did already have a girlfriend, was hanging me on the line at the same time, and had the nerve to get jealous because I was just talking to a pilot (from Texas who had landed his Lear Jet in the town I was living in) and I was a cook at a hotel restaurant. The guy I was with got all flustered and got angry with me, while he was with the other girl, who used to come around while I was working in the kitchen preparing the orders of the customers. In other words, a guy who is seriously involved with a woman but has the guts to date or sleep with another woman at the same time, needs to be castrated.
2007-08-05 11:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in a comitted relationship, you can date whom ever you choose. I think more people should do that instead of getting serious after a couple of dates. You can join groups of people with like interests which will keep you from feeling so lonely. Also, you might consider volunteering in an area of interest and meet new people. That's called "networking"....in other words, stop trying so hard. Love will come when the time is right. Godloveya.
2007-08-04 06:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single guy, you have the right to date as many women as you desire. Obviously, you may encounter some opposition from your lady friends, but if your honest and say that you play the field, it should be no problem. You should also show your class by remembering certian things like Birthdays and special occasions!
2007-08-04 06:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by perrygreenwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. But you have to be honest about it.
While my husband and I were dating back in the old days, I was one of 5 he was dating. I was only dating 2.
I guess you can say we chose each other.
2007-08-04 06:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Like being a DINK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Is it wrong for a guy to date few gals at the same time?" As long as he isn't bed hopping no it's not wrong. Same goes for women. This is how we find out WHO we are compatible with. There is nothing wrong with dating as friends either.
2007-08-04 11:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong.
The only way you can say it's not morally wrong is if all the girls you're dating know about each other and are okay with that. Otherwise, each one is convinced you're being faithful and will be heart broken when you get caught cheating.
2007-08-04 07:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating two girls at the same time, that is fine, as long as they both know you are not committed to them exclusively and you aren't intimate with both of them. That would just be wrong.
2007-08-04 06:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as none of the girls think you are exclusive with just them and you are upfront about it than there is nothing wrong. When it gets messy and hurtful is if you are not honest about what you want or are doing.
2007-08-04 06:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ann B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and I always dated one guy. althou I kept
my options open when I wasn't dating and saw several guys
we were more like friends or I was just having fun!
2007-08-04 06:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by relaxrx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will desire to easily tell him what you instructed us! i haven't had intercourse, so i do no longer comprehend if it could be certainly one of those massive deal yet i'd experience guy adequate for basically having a woman interior the 1st place.
2016-10-01 09:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by mcglothlen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋