2007-08-04 03:26:13 · 16 answers · asked by Trouble 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I work in the medical field so I know what men have to go through when getting checked for STDs. I told my ex (after I found out he cheated) that he needed to get tested. He went through all these tests and called me and found out that I lied to him. He went through painful tests for nothing. I just laughed and hung up.
2007-08-04 03:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by KCATP 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-06 02:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Juanita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I understand that you think revenge is really the route you want to go, stop and consider a few things first.
1) Karma is a b*tch and what goes around comes around. Do you really want that pendulum to swing back your way??
2) While it may make you feel better momentarily, is it really going to make you feel better and be able to move on and not look back?? (I doubt it)
3) Revenge is for children and middle schoolers. Although we tend to want to "get back" at the person who has wronged us, that only brings us down to their level. Wouldn't you rather take the high road and be the better person??
Look, I know where you are coming from. I am NOT a very nice person once someone has crossed me and I spent the frist 25 some years of my life seeking revenge and getting back at people. I am now in my 30's and I've realized that it's just not worth wasting my time on these people. These people are trash (per se) and at the end of the night, I am who I am and they are still trash!! Getting back at people only feels good for a short time and then you're back to being just as pissed off or as hurt as you were to begin with. The point is, seeking revenge will not make your anger/hurt go away. The best thing you can do, is move on and leave them where they are. There is a reason that some people are in our past and we learn something from each and every one of them. We learn how to better ourselves!! Take the high road and be the person that they only *wish* they could be. Walk around with your head held high and make them wonder what you are up to. The best revenge is for them to not know what is going on with you and to wonder what you are up to.
Best of luck!
2007-08-04 03:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't actually carry or hold any grudges from a relationship after it's over but sometimes I like to have some fun.
I once saw an ex with a guy i knew at a club, the three of us talked and they seemed to be getting along well, they even exchanged numbers, I told the guy to go for it but not to call her immediately..
The next day, I called her pretending to be him and since I knew her pretty well, i engaged her in conversation and brought up some serious topics and then i brought up some topics I knew would make her uncomfortable... It went on like this for about two hours until i made some comments and jokes that made her realize it was me, she was so pissed she called my mom and told on me... She was really pissed for about a week, but now i always bring it up whenver i bump into her and she just laughs. The guy also found pretty funny as well...
Another thing is that i give my ex's numbers away to everyone so they get calls from guys asking them out and stuff like that...
2007-08-04 03:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing I ever did was two years into our divorce, I cut out all contract with her directly. I only spoke to my daughters. They were 12 and 14 at that time. That was 16 years ago, and by doing that and refusing to ever see her or even talk to her, I invalidated her existence. She thought she was such a wonderful person. Turns out therapist told me is a paranoid delusional who was trying, as my mother did, to destroy me. Be st move I ever did. Like telling her she did not exist, and that hurt her more than anything else. Not only that, she has continued to spew hatred and lies about me all these years. so I know it was the right move. Sometimes, you just have to walk away and never look back. I also let my mother and father go out of my life, because it was through their abusing me all my life until I stopped seeing them that I chose an abusive partner. I matured.
2016-05-17 23:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get my revenge by taking the lessons I've learned from the relationship and using them to make myself a better person. Watching him suffer for a few days won't make you happier in the long run--knowing you still took something away from the situation will.
2007-08-04 03:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by thegnomeofwrath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have never gotten revenge on anyone. Trying to get revenge on someone is really immature and a total waste of time. The best revenge is to move on with your life and never ever let them see the pain they caused. Holding on to bitterness and resentment will only keep you stuck and will not allow you to move on and be happy.
2007-08-04 03:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
By getting a even better bf. It's the most healthy and sweetest revenge.
2007-08-04 03:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by tastesofheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the whole revenge thing is kind of stupid... Karma will do wonders itself.
BUT, the closest thing to revenge that I've done is burn their items that were left with me. Well, burn, rip, pee on, break... You know, stuff like that. It was actually just to make myself feel better, not get revenge. It does wonders for a broken heart.
2007-08-04 03:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The best revenge is to move on and be happy. Show them you can live and prosper and they dont matter to you.
2007-08-04 05:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋