his mom informed me yesterday that we broke up and I want to talk to him but am afraid she might call the cops on me-can I get arrested-he's not said to me we were broke up just his mom has
2007-08-04 02:58:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im 22, not 15
2007-08-04 03:02:10 · update #1
yeah he sure is a mommas boy lol
2007-08-04 03:03:03 · update #2
You cannot get into trouble unless he has taken out a restraining order on you. Even if she calls the cops, there is nothing that they can do to you. Therefore, you cannot get into any trouble what-so-ever.
2007-08-04 03:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand this question. If you are not living with your husband then you know you are "broke up," and didn't need his mother to tell you.
Anyway, you can't get in trouble unless the following are true:
Your husband has a restraining order or an order of protection filed against you with the courts.
The mother in law has filed a harassment complaint.
Other than that, try to communicate with him by some other means than calling your mother in laws home. Does he work? Call there and ask to have a face to face meeting. This is a very strange question and sounds like an even stranger relationship.
Good luck.
2007-08-04 10:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't break up when your married. Don't be afraid if she calls the cops. When the cops contact you just let them know that you are trying to see where your husband is because he has been missing for sometime, and your worried. You can turn that around easily. Ask the cops to ask her is he is ok, and that you would like to speak with him. Don't leave any harassing phone messages, and you will be ok. Now what he has done is called Abandonment. Do you have any children? Get a lawyer to discuss your options about him abandoning the home. He may lose everything because of it. Get a lawyer now.
2007-08-04 11:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a stalker and he has a restraining order against you can not get in trouble for making a phone call. If he continues to refuse to talk you however you better let it go. Wow it might help if I read the question. You broke up? So is he filing for divorce? The way you worded your question did not sound like a question a wife would ask about a husband? It sounds like there is more to this than you are stating in question.
2007-08-04 10:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by fire_side_2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband sounds like a coward. Why is he hiding behind his mother. Stop calling for a while not because you can be arrested. The only way that could happen is if there's a restraining order against you for non contact. His mother is the one who wants you 2 to break up. She should not get in the middle of things going on in your marriage. You calling and asking his only going to make her behavior towards you worse. If he's working go to his job and try to talk to him there, or maybe have another family member contact him.
2007-08-04 10:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same answers keep coming up and I agree, you can't get in trouble unless he has a restraining order against you.
However, also be very careful what you say... Especially if you have children. Stay cool, calm, and collected no matter what he says. If he's with his mother and she's as psycho as she sounds any irrationality (even if its totally rational) can get your kids taken if it's a divorce situation.
What ever you do, DON'T THREATEN HIM in anyway, in person or on the phone, this CAN get you arrested.
& if you have to get a lawyer. Good luck!
2007-08-04 10:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Monchichi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can make things a big problem for you, but if the cops show up & they don't see a restraining order or you acting a fool, then she looks really bad for wasting the cops time & taxpayers money. Some cities have a policy to bill people for making false alarm calls.
2007-08-04 10:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant get arresred for calling your husband unless you have a restraining order saying not to or you have warrants out for your arrest and Mom's directs them to you. My question is that if he had Mom tell you that he doesn't want to be with you, then why would you want to be with him. Did he have Mom say "I do" at the alter as well. What have the two of you done to this poor sap if he has zero spine of his own?
2007-08-04 10:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by bullheadbrawlers2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of anyone getting arrested for calling their husband (unless he has a restraining order on you). I would definately call and talk to him. He didnt break up with you. His mother broke up with you. Talk to him and find out whats going on. My guess is they wont answer the phone. Or the mother in law will and wont let you talk to him. Good luck to you. take care
2007-08-04 10:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first off, why is his mother passing messages to you about your husband? Second, why is he at his mom's house? Third, who husband is he anyway? You can't call her for him on her phone because she can file communication harrassment charges on you. If he has regressed back to his mama's house, then you should not want to call him anyway. You should not try to contact him at all. If there are some bills or something that need to be paid, but to talk, no. He needs to grow up. You need to go on business as usual. One thing that I am learning is: If a man wants you, you will know. You need to take this quiet time and focus on you.
2007-08-04 10:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by co97mb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot get in trouble with the police for calling your husband unless he has an order of protection prohibiting you from any contact at all with him. What's with his mom, she sounds like a lunatic.
2007-08-04 10:03:08 · answer #11 · answered by comeundone4162 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋