Did I Open Pandora's Box?

Question

I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity about it. As I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him what the fascination was and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.

Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. I'm thinking if I can limit it to a few minutes around the time we go to bed, we could have fun with it. How should I handle this?

Answer 1

This is not a terribly uncommon fetish among men, and I mean, come on, doesn't a pair of pantyhose just feel good on?

However, it is a fetish and doesn't need to be indulged every day. Maybe he's asked a few times recently because he's discovered something new that he really likes! I know that if my husband and I try a new position or something new in bed and he really likes it, he'll be asking to do it again and again, until the newness wears off and it's just added to our arsenal.

There's nothing wrong with fetishes so long as they don't go too far or the individual becomes dependent on the fetish for sexual gratification.

Answer 2

Your last statement is the key. IF you can limit it to the occasional bedroom romp with him in pantyhose, go ahead and have some fun. But don't let it become a routine every time you have sex. If he wants the pantyhose (or other articles of your clothing) everynight, or every time you have sex, you have a bigger problem. As long as your sheers don't become a necessity in your/his sex life, have fun with them.

Answer 3

Consult the answers you got he last 10 times you asked this.