I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity about it. As I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him what the fascination was and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. I'm thinking if I can limit it to a few minutes around the time we go to bed, we could have fun with it. How should I handle this?
2007-08-04 01:12:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i hate to say this but thats kind of cute and funny and....strange
maybe this is just a phase he's going thru
it could be coming from stress at work or a number of other things
i wish you and your husband the best, good luck!!
2007-08-04 06:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by JulyFire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow-yea....Pandora's Box: understatement. However, let me ease your mind by letting you know that it is in no way your fault or doing the reason why he's 'fascinated' with pantyhose. I think men that have weird little fetishes like that have been harboring it for a long time and just waiting for the right moment to let it come out. He may have been ashamed or uncomfortable telling you his fascination in the past and felt the time was right now. Know that it took a lot for him to come out with it and that involved a great deal of courage and trusting you to do that. So, what I'm trying to say is handle this with kid gloves. Wait til a moment where you guys aren't sexual or anything and bring it up. Ask him questions, and voice your opinions. Be honest. Does it make you feel funny? Tell him. Ask him why he likes it so much and would he do it on an everyday basis, or does he just like wearing the hose when he's at home with you? Ask him whatever comes to your mind, and tell him whatever's on your mind, with sensitivity to his feelings. Isn't this what marriage is all about anyways? Honesty? Remember that line "...for better or for worse..." Depending on how you look at it....I don't know if this is worse---LOL....good luck!!!
2007-08-04 08:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by mybootyisthatbig79 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, this is a tough one. I married a man who told me that he'd seen some rated XXX movies with gay men in them. He told me while we were dating and that he'd been curious about bi-sexuality but didn't think he'd ever try being with a man. He continued to watch the occasional XXX all-male movies after we were married. Three years later, he had "relations" with his manager, a guy. I figured out what happened on my own. I was livid.
This is similar, I think. If you continue to encourage your husband, he will continue to want to wear the pantyhose more and more. If you deny him, he will eventually buy his own pantyhose. If you don't want to be married to a cross-dresser, tell your husband that. If he cannot control the compulsion to wear the pantyhose and you really do find it unacceptable, insist he go to counseling or hand him divorce papers. Because he will continue to want to wear pantyhose, there's nothing more you can do.
Try counseling first. Only problem? Your hubby can still sneak and wear them without you knowing. So you have to decide whether you trust your husband or not once you go through counseling.
If it were me, and I've already gone through a divorce because my husband had a deviant sexual relationship, I'd go ahead and cut my losses and hand him divorce papers. I don't think he'll get over wearing pantyhose. But you know your husband better than I do. If you think counseling will help, please try it. If you think he won't change even with counseling, what's the point of staying with him? Pantyhose today, corsets tomorrow...
2007-08-04 09:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Serena 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, buy him his own and let him keep them... You dn't want him ruining yours... If you want to turn him off of it, just show him how to care for pantyhose and that will end the fascination.. At least you know about his fetish have fun with it... I hate pantyhose, blah !!! Good luck
2007-08-04 08:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have asked this question 10 times, why? I dont get it.
2007-08-05 06:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes him happy and it doesn't bother you go for it. try anything in life once as they say.
2007-08-04 08:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by richie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋