I'm not happy about this but i'll get straight to the point, to get back at an ex before finishing completely i one last time showed him what he was missing, and he sat down afterwards and asked me to take him back now i cannot get rid, my question is has anyone else made love to their ex, or done something as a reminder of what they will be missing...this is not about getting them back at all, it's just something i felt i had to do it made it easier for me to move on.... was this wrong of me?
The reason we finished is simply because we couldn't see eye to eye on anything except one thing (sex).
2007-08-03 23:18:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I was in a similar situation.
2007-08-03 23:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You did what you had to do to move on, no it wasn't wrong. I had a situation similar to yours, we broke up, met at a club and had sex just for old time sake, but we never got back together after that, and I haven't see her for many years. If living off of sex alone where is the relationship, to be frank, I don't see one from what you wrote down, only just sex between the both of you.
2007-08-03 23:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by J1 M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really need to move on, change phone numbers locks everything. He'll get the hint. Or just straight up tell him this is it! It's over ... Blah blah
What you did really was stupid and pointless but everyone no matter what they say does that in a way of getting back without realizing it really comes back to bite you in the *** in the end ....
2007-08-03 23:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole premise of "getting back" or "showing up" exes is a waste of time in getting back into the swing of being single and can damage your self esteem or cause great pain to someone that you once cared about enough to date.
2007-08-03 23:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by y.thelastman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. We finished and I haven't had any contact since that day. As I told him when he finished with me, I'd be over him within six hours ... I was. The chump told me I could phone him once a week to help me get over him.
2007-08-04 01:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by elflaeda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You always need one last time, well if its good sex you do. But NEVER ever go back, made that mistake a few times, who am i kidding, i probably will again. Good luck x
2007-08-03 23:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a girl that just done this to a guy and it is very misleading or it was to him. Now he thinks she wants him and she doesn't. It's hard for him to get that through his thick head.
I'd say it's a not so well planned practice!
2007-08-03 23:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is indeed delicate,sounds like your plan backfired. I would recommend closing the sex door maybe he will take the hint after a while :)
2007-08-03 23:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, when you break up with someone, it kinda means that you dont get a long, or have issues with each other, so it is normally better to just leave it, and go, and get over him/her!
so, yeh, it was a bad thing because you now have given him the idea that you like him, and he will now try to get back with you.
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2007-08-03 23:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Klick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its al just about sex, then what is the point of having a relationship? Love is about caring for each-other.
He only wants you for your body then, just tell him to ****-off and move on
2007-08-03 23:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Xiht 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never get back to an ex.
2007-08-03 23:20:58 · answer #11 · answered by zoeksalamander 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋