There is a guy that i like and we txt all the time.I probably txt him more than he replies,but never the less this has been happening for years.I asked him today if he thinks we should keep it up or give it a miss because it never gets any further than talk.Well his reply to me was it's your decision if you want to end it'but what he said next really threw me,I don't think you can because you are addicted,obviously he means to him.Is he just being smart,or does he really think this if so does he have an oversized opinion of himself.I think he does,should i let it pass or never txt him again and just let him see he is up himself thinking that.I do like him and he knows that.It's just i don't like him saying your addicted i never said i was.
2007-08-03 22:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by flossypants 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he's conceited. Sorry, but it does. If it were me, I'd stop texting him every day. I wouldn't give up the friendship, but I'd make sure I didn't text him so much unless he sent a text first. Then I'd make him wait a little bit before I answered. IF there is any chance that he might like you too, this will bring his ego down a notch and might make him realize how much he likes you. If he doesn't like you in the same way, then at least you'll know and be able to find someone who deserves you more without all of the conceit.
Good luck, hon. Keep your standards high and stay strong and you'll be ok.
2007-08-03 22:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you text him all the time, it seems to me that you are! When he told you that you were addicted to him, it was his strategy to make you feel more infatuated towards him. It's a "guy" technique! Pretty old-fashioned, but still seems to work. It arouses the curiousity of women, that's all it's supposed to do. You can try "abstaining" from texting him, and he'll probably send you a message or two. It's YOUR choice if you still want to play around with him or carry on with your life. No offense, I can't believe you guys have been doing this for years!
2007-08-03 22:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by occultdestroyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego problems there. If he thinks he is soo awesome and you are soo weak that you are addicted to txt'ing him, then might be time to lose his address.
You might like him, but that attitude is not very decent. Wonder what other dirty secrets he's hiding??
Of course, you never know with people online, but you can usually get a good feel for them after 6 months or so...
2007-08-03 22:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Unknowable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really dump him,end it!What kinda guy does that? Even if you really like him u should ask yourself,would you really want to have a relationship with a guy who thinks you're addicted to him?If you do decide to move on with him I'm quite sure he'll exploit you,but then again,the decision is yours.Choose wisely,good luck!
2007-08-03 22:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play some reverse psychology on him...like tell him; "I think your the one that's addicted." brag yourself up 2 him...like youre all that...like he needs you
2007-08-03 22:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, end it... and never text him again. cause he really has big ego and merely, I think he's a rude one. and besides, you don't know him better, do you?
2007-08-03 22:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to tell you nicely to go away.
2007-08-03 22:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't txt him again.
2007-08-03 22:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋