what would you do if you one day find out that yo husband has another married life with kids just about the same age as your kids
2007-08-03 21:25:43 · 25 answers · asked by .:soulk!d:. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to the top ten divorce attorneys in your town and have a free consultation with each of them. Then the lying rat bastard can't use any of them.
Hire the best lawyer and sue his butt for divorce.
DON'T LISTEN TO THE PEOPLE TELLING YOU THAT YOUR MARRIAGE IS INVALID IF YOU'RE THE SECOND WIFE. That is NOT true. Your marriage was a legal contract and you will be held liable for his debts unless you get a legal divorce. You are also entitled to child support and spousal support even if your marriage is the second one. See an attorney now.
2007-08-03 21:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by ddd 874 587 545 543 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would run through a variety of emotions. First off, of course, I would feel very betrayed. And then secondly--chalk this up to my competative streak--I'd hope that mine was the Top Family and that the other he had was just some fling...granted the relationship has lasted probably just as long.
2007-08-04 04:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd have everything he owns packed up in boxes on the curb ready for him to pick up if the garbage truck dosen't come for it first. i'd get all the locks changes and the phone numbers. and mail the divorce papers to his other home. then after all that i'd probably cry for 3 or 4 months straight...
2007-08-04 16:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetest Chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd really question myself more than him as to what kind of men I am attracted to.
If this really would happen, this person must work or be away a lot....more than any normal husband works. Right there should be a red flag.
2007-08-04 04:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce
Seperate
Take my poor sad kids away from his clutches
Never speak to him again
Hate him all my life for his lies and deceit.
Find someone else and marry a good man
2007-08-04 04:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
im not sure about what i will do, but i think he choose 2 be husband of 2 wifes.u better stay and fix the matter.as long as he can afort two family then nothing wrong.
2007-08-04 04:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by kidio2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've been watching too much Law and Order.
They did an episode on that very subject.
The Rat
2007-08-04 06:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow Run and sue the heck out of him. Put his sorry A S S in Jail that is a crime.
2007-08-04 04:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get a lawyer
2007-08-04 04:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lou C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get the urge to get a gun and kill his a.s.s.
But I may ,if I donot kill him file bigamy charges and move away states away.
Before I do all that I would cheat alot then do what he did,secretly.
2007-08-04 07:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋