well theres this really cute guy that i like and he wants to have sex should i? i am 13 and hes 14...if we used a condom would it be ok?
2007-08-03 20:44:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Absolutely not. Condoms are only 95 - 98% effective and you could still get pregnant while using one. Even if you're on the pill as well, there is a possibility. At 13 and 14 years old, are you ready to be parents? Also, just because he's really cute and wants to have sex, it's not a good reason to do so. Sex should take place between two adults who love each other very much and are ready to take on the responsibility of whatever may happen. It should never take place between two kids because they are "into" each other (and you are kids - no matter what you say or how you feel).
2007-08-03 20:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♪BandMom♪♪ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. There are way to many consequences that come along with it. Besides...I PROMISE YOU...IT WILL ONLY END IN HEARTACHE. Do you really want to be the only one stuck at home while all your friends are out having a good time, while you are stuck at home with a fussy or sick baby?
And Remember, Condoms are not 100% safe. You can still catch something. For example HPV. Its the known cause of Cervical cancer. You can use a condom and still catch it. 1 out of 4 people will have it. That's scary. Think really hard about your decision. Because having sex at your age isn't what its cracked up to be.
2007-08-03 20:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not have sex with this guy, Just because he is cute and you like him. You should wait until you meet the right guy! Here is what you should do. Go to google.com. Type in the search bar STD, just like that than start reading the articles that come up. Then you decide if it is worth it to you to ruin your life by getting AIDS, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Herpes, etc..... You are way too young to be worrying about sex. Don't be in such a rush to grow up. If this guy cant wait until you are ready then he is not the guy for you. You will know when you meet the right guy. I pray for you that that man will be your husband. I never planned on waiting till marriage to have sex, it just worked out that way. I waited for the right man and when I met him I knew. I am so glad that I waited. When sex is saved for marriage it can be the most precious gift you give your spouse.
2007-08-03 20:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by KatyCat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell does how long you talk to somebody have to do with allowing them to shove their dick in your pussy and drop a few million sperm cells, I cannot believe somnetimes how stupid you girls are. Save you self and any children you ever have a lot of grief. Never have sex with anyone unless they are a MAN that is ready and capible of being a great father. And then use protection until you actually want a child. And never ever give a boy free sex, they don't deserve it and then if they get it they never grow up. Read these posting and see just how many lives are ****** up by girls spreading like warm butter for boys that don't deserve to get laid in the first place.
2016-05-17 22:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that you are asking 'us' for the answer obviously means you don't feel ready to have sex, and clearly at the age of thirteen, you wouldn't be. If you are not comfortable with doing it, or don't feel ready or safe, then don't do it honey. It would be a lot safer and less complicated of you leave it until you are older. I wouldn't do anything you will regret later on in your life, and I believe this is one of those things. Your virginity is one of the most precious gifts you could have, you only get it once in your life time, once it's lost, you never get it back. Good Luck.
(Please don't make a mistake)
2007-08-03 22:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by x. Mommy Kate .x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you are too young. You will regret it later. Have respect for yourself and giving yourself up to every guy that asks will make you a slut. He doesn't care about you he just wants you for sex. Also condoms are not 100% safe....you can still get pregnant or stds.
2007-08-03 20:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by stacey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. You're both underage. He cares that you might give it to him, not about you - lets not kid ourselves and you'd completely regret it. You're far too young. I know you understand sex and you might not be scared of it but here's the thing, you will end up feeling cheap and violated and not good. If you're a smart girl, you'll forget about him and focus on school for now.
2007-08-04 01:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO HAVE SEX! And when ever you do you should do it because YOU want to not because he wants to. And make sure that you love him and are safe. Not just because he is "cute". PLEASE do not do anything you don't want to. And if you do decide to talk to your mom and get on birth control and use a condom.
2007-08-03 21:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey..you are FAR too young!
Trust me, it may seem tempting now, but you will regret it..
It won't matter that he was "really cute" 20 years from now..you'll still have lost your virginity at 13 to a boy that you barely knew.
2007-08-03 20:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on have sex so you can be stuck with a baby and a disapperaing daddy trick. Condoms don't work that well I learned my lesson.
2007-08-04 13:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋