I am 16 and i think i might be gay, but i do not know how to be sure. Please help me.?

Question

I am attracted to men.

i have had sex with about 20 men, and loved it.

I live in alabama...i know right

Answer 1

Your gay and may have an STD, I would get checked fast..

Answer 2

Hi desalv, If you are attracted to men what about the way you feel about women!!! Do you feel like you would want to have sex with a woman or would you like to have sex with a man. If you have NO attraction to women at all and you don't get horny when you look at a good looking and sexy woman you are gay. Only you can answers some of the things i have said.
Think about it and be honest about it. You will feel a lot better about your self once you have found out the true about your self. If you are it will be hard to come out of the closet but you will need to do this. If your don't you will keep on hurting deep inside your self. Just remember that it's not you fault if you are gay. I hope this helps you.
A Friend.
poppy1

Answer 3

If you are attracted to other men, you are gay.
There are no two ways about it. Find some nude modelling (not porn) on the internet of both men and women, and ask yourself which you believe to be more beautiful, arousing, etc.

If it is the men, you're gay, if it's the women, you are straight. If it is both, you are bi.

I discovered I was gay at the age of 13 and it's really not that big a deal. If you're not going to be honest with anyone else, at least have the courage to be honest with your self.

Good luck, and peace out.

Answer 4

You don't need to put a label on yourself and certainly not at 16. Humans are sexual beings and if it were not for religious intolerance and laws brought about by religious intolerance, many men would explore their sexuality without worrying about it or labelling themselves.There are many men who have sex with other men who do not consider themselves to be gay or bisexual.

Explore your sexuality, try different things. You don't need therapy, there is nothing wrong with you, you are a perfectly normal person. If you want to experiment with men, do so. If you want to experiment with women, do so. Do what feels right for you. In years to come you might have to label yourself for some reason. When that time comes you will know who you are. In the meantime you are not gay, you are not straight, you are not bisexual, you are sexual. Enjoy it.

Answer 5

well, guy, if you're attracted to men..then you fit the definition of gay. You don't really sound like you need any help with that...you,yourself, said you are attracted to men...lots of us are LOL...maybe you just need someone to talk to ---it can be difficult to sort it all out when you are 16...try calling a gay center or PFLAG or someone just for the support of having someone to talk to....no matter what you'll be fine...there are millions of us who have come through where you are and we are leading happy fullfilled lives....

Answer 6

If your are sexually attracted to men and had sex with men you are in fact gay.

Answer 7

If your attracted to men that equals gay

So...
definitely talk with someone like a counselor asap!

Remember, its only a precentage of who you are, dont think its all that you are

ever

goodluck

and pay no attention to the *** holes on here

Answer 8

Your definently gay. 20 guys, are you SERIOUS!!!

I'd be lucky to sleep with just one person of any gender! I'm 16, gay and still a virgin.

Where do you live? Is it gay friendly?

Answer 9

Go talk it out with a therapist. They will help you sort through your feelings and they will be totally neutral about it (or at least they should be). Best of luck to you!!

Answer 10

Boys = Hot! Girls = shopping buddy.