What should I do?
2007-08-03 19:34:07 · 82 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you have some priorities to set. If you're married, you should be giving your wife the [sexual] attention she needs. The dilemma of feeling bad for your girlfriend, it would seem that since she knows you're married (or does she?) that she is ok with your sexual relationship with your wife so my guess is she doesn't mind.
2007-08-03 19:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by mook 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL. Talk about predicaments. You can't be afraid to have sex with your wife. You should be afraid of your wife finding out that you are having sex with your girlfriend instead. You don't want to cheat on your wife either, do you? It is going to cost you. So think out your priorities and do the right thing.
2007-08-03 20:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um ... I think a lot of people would have already slammed you on this so I'm not gonna do that anymore, all I can say is you have to stop asking such questions and start asking yourself why the hell you have a girlfriend when you have a wife, now I don't know what your story is but all I can say is either leave your girlfriend or get a divorce (personally I like option A cause I'm kind of old fashioned)
2007-08-03 19:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by JK Sy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you would want to do is look at the question that you just posed. What are the reasons that you married your wife? If you think that your wife is imposing on your current relationship with your girlfriend, then chances are that you married for the wrong reasons. Perhaps if you were to look inward into your feelings and perceptions around you, the likely answer is that you may be feeling as though your marriage wasn't in your best interest.
My belief would be that you could share your feelings with your wife about your girlfriend and vice versa. I think that you are afraid to be "alone" in this world and that you would have one of the two women in your life to always be around for you.
Chances are, that you may insecure about yourself and that you need a "safety net" in the event that you loose one of the two females around you. You could become honest with yourself first and get in touch with your true inner insecurities and self doubt. Once your do this, then and only then, can you become more resolute in your decisions. Good Luck.
2007-08-03 19:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by TIMMY D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife for a divorce. Again, time to do some serious soul searching. If you're that 'scared' of being 'caught' then you're not being honest. You'll not be comfortable and happy until you are courageous enough to tackle your issues. Seek therapy. Your wife (and all others who love you) DESERVE to know the truth. You have a right to do with your life what you choose. You do NOT have the right to take the same privilige away from others. Ask for help from those who can actually assist you. I'm serious...get some therapy. Good luck.
2007-08-03 19:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you posted this just for a reaction, if you were genuine you would have given more details.
If you are really in love with your girlfriend and things are over between you and your wife then do the right thing by both women. Leave your wife, she deserves better. Give her the house and the car. Go shack up with your girlfriend and maybe you'll find a relationship where you can be faithful.
2007-08-03 19:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by Janey 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious you need to meet karma like it seems like alto of cheating husband are meeting on here this week. Just remember what you do to your wife and family is going to come back and destroy your life it may not be now or next week or not even next year but when karma show up you Will be wishing you didn't do no wrong. Good luck you a$$hoe and may there be a plague on you.
2007-08-03 19:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you freaking serious!?!?!!? You already are cheating on your wife with her! So what difference does it make!?!?!?! Break up with your girlfriend!! You sohuldn't have a girlfriend when your married, incase you missed the memo!
I changed my mind tell your wife you have a gf so she can get ride of your sorry butt, she is to good for you!
2007-08-05 08:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Schrödinger the Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on please ,if you 're cheating on some one it's that poor lady whom you claim is your wife.
God men have some sense,you just go a head and cheat on the women who chose you over other men.who agreed to share their lives with you for better or for worse.
If you have any feelings what so ever for this women either dump that other woman who doesn't mind having a relationship with a man even though she knows he's married or just let your poor wife knows you are having an affair and let her decide if you dare.
2007-08-03 19:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure you asked that right? u r backwards....You should be afraid to have sex with ur GIRLFRIEND bc that would be cheating on ur WIFE do you understand? IF ur worrying about having sex with ur wife, then there is a big problem! u need to grow up! and ask ur self y u married if ur jsut gonna cheat on her. don't make no sense!
2007-08-03 19:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Just Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already been cheated your girl by getting married with your wife. Now what you expecting others to give you advice? Better you shouldn't cheat your wife rather than your girl friend
2007-08-03 19:37:07 · answer #11 · answered by Bluebird 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋