i can use some cheering up to do :)?

Question

please help me if you care :)

so, my friend (a guy) and i got into a fight last monday. i don't exactly remember what it was about, but it totally changed our friendship. he stopped taking my calls, signing off on aim when i tried to im him.
then, i went up to him in person and was like "can we talk?"
then he said "i don't want to talk to you because we always get into fights" then he left...
i sent him an e-mail about 3 days ago and he hasn't answered. i guess, he needs time to think about it. i understand that.
the e-mail was everything i wanted to say like it was really the end.
i really don't want it to be over because i've known him for like 7+ years.
what should i do to cheer up? or what can i do to get him back?

but the thing is...he doesn't want to talk about our friendship anymore. he's tired of it

Answer 1

Give me a call will talk and cheer you up.
Dump him.

Answer 2

7 yrs is a long time. Fights are bound to happen but we ca not let them tear us apart. Tell him you are sorry for any misunderstanding that may have happened and when he is ready and willing to talk you are available. That 7 yrs is not somthing up can treat lightly,. I would just e,mail him don,t do the AIM thing or the my space. I would use a new e=mail address in case he has blocked your address.(using a pet name he may have had for you) You can set one up easily on Yahoo or Hot mail easily. Or leave a short voice mail on the Phone. send him a note via snailmail. I hae seen some very appropriate cards at some card shops. We willing to admit guilt Even if you are not aware that you may have been at fault. Be very patient he may need time to think things over and he may need to realize he misses you and such.
Don't chase.
Now lets work on cheering you up......Smile Come on it is ok. and it is beautiful Breath in to the count of 4 and out to the count of 6, Do this three times and think of beautiful fields of flowers, waterfalls or a favorite spot and enjoy of refresing non aloholic drink. Better days ahead Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

I have to say that he isn't handling this situation in the best manner, obviously letting his anger getting the better part of him. You did all you could, probably more than what other would do to save a friendship, just let it be. His anger will eventually fades off and maybe some day he'll talk to you again. Of course by then, its up to you to forgive him or not, although if it was me, i'd rather forgive than to make another friendship a history.

Answer 4

Leave him be. Give him time to cool off. Go about your life and don't let this argument upset you. Good friends can argue and then forget it, realizing that it takes two to disagree. This guy seems to feel that it is "his way or the highway." He may not be the kind of friend you want.

When some time has passed, approach him again, but don't be surprised if he rebuffs you. Some people carry grudges like camels carry a hump.

Answer 5

Let him cool down first.
Wait for like a few days, then send a mssg to apologize and asked whether he's ready to talk things out.
Don't forget to mention that you really appreciate the friendship and don't wanna lose it.
If he says yes, apologize to him face to face sincerely.
Most probably, he'll apologize to you too don't wrry.

Answer 6

Vow to change you attitude when you are around him. No more fights.

If you want to cheer him up ( I am serious here), send him some flowers. I dont care what anyone says, my girlfriend sent me flowers one time after we had a disagreement...and even though I was mad at her....I couldn't help but smile once I saw those flowers. Try it.

Answer 7

go to him face to face,n say all the things u said in ur email.then let him talk.

Answer 8

just give him a fuking blow job and he will love you for that!

trust me