2007-08-03 18:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by jusmic80 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its my wife mother
2007-08-05 03:33:43 · update #1
She was controlling before you married. Up to your husband to set her straight. If he won't, just be polite and see her as little as posssible or move far away from her.
2007-08-03 19:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your MIL won't do something in a diverse way till your husband places her in his place. It can't be you, then it is going to easily replace right into a potential warfare, and that i'm hoping that's not the case and which you particularly prefer her to lower back off so which you will stay your guy or woman existence, not take over for her. you are able to desire to have a severe communicate with your husband related to ways you spot this affecting your relationship now and sooner or later. some men desire a reason to step up and be a guy, and he could see you and your marriage as sufficient of a reason. Have him communicate with mom, have him p.c. that sufficient is sufficient. in case you do the speaking to her, he would sense betrayed and he or she would have the capacity to sense green with envy. it somewhat is a dynamic that grew to become into possibly in place long before you, and your husband has to look after it. reliable success.
2016-10-19 09:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by konen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she has any extra of the drugs she's taking. Mothers only control when the children refuse to grow up honey. So see if there is something in your life that could use changing and change it. Or if all else fails, move far away.
2007-08-03 18:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely disagree with post 2-- dont keep your mouth shut- you have a voice, discuss with your husband and come up with a plan that will make everyone happy, not just psycho mother-in law
2007-08-03 19:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by TaylorMade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't fix it. When you married the man, you married the family. All you can do is smile, be nice, be respectful and keep your mouth shut.
2007-08-03 18:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CHOSE to marry her son. You CHOSE to tolerate his mother as she is. If she was a problem then you should NOT have married her son.
2007-08-03 19:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy answer..
MOVE... away...
get as far away as u can...
no phone... no telgram... no transportation....cars, buses,, or boats..
Become Ur own control freak... .. set ur own rules, if ur spouse/ and mother inlaw doesn't like it.,,, then hit the road....
2007-08-03 19:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
janicajayne is right...and I love her...I wish my girlfriend was like that....anyways just move out you dont have to see her.
2007-08-03 18:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an adult you don't have to do what she says, and if she gives you an additude, tell her that...
2007-08-03 18:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by nupeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop PLEASE!
2007-08-03 18:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥SkAtE-LiFe-RoCkErS♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋