is it possible to lose a friend instantly?

Question

i think Farm Bred hates me and that makes me hate myself.

Answer 1

I know where you're coming from, and I understand he is hurt, and other friends are, too, I fear. If you sincerely didn't mean to hurt them, and if you sincerely care about them, about how THEY are feeling, and about their friendship, you must let them know that, and hope that they can understand and forgive. This may take some time, healing takes time, but all the efforts are worth!

By asking this question, you're showing that you care, this is a good sign!

The best of luck to you all!

Answer 2

Depending on what you did,like for example sleeping with your best friend's boyfriend for 6 months.Anything worse than that,then yeah you can.But little stuff,not really,you eventually forgive them.Why do you think Farm Bred hated you?

Answer 3

Alvaro Alvaro....I am sure Farm will forgive you.....he is a good guy....I know you were just joking thats your personality but we can all step out of line once and a while we all joke around at times if you are sorry then let it be maybe he will come around.....We are all human and we all make mistakes its ok don't hate yourself but just understand what happened in the situation!! We all have feelings and perceptions and we do have to take in consideration of others even when we are joking and just trying to have fun in what ever that fun may be...On the internet sometimes words can be so taken out of context and people will think and react to what they see....its all a learning experience many great kindred souls on Y/A we are all trying to find our way and brighten our lives and the people we come into contact with...Life is difficult enough as you know...I try to have peace with everyone and sometimes we do not know where the other person is coming from and we jump to conclusions until we hear the other person out and its called communication hahah don't worry Alvaro this to Shall pass :))) be happy and have a great weekend :)))

Answer 4

Alvaro, my friend, no true and deep friendship could be easily cast aside. Friendships are cultivated in all types of situations, and while there may be set backs or disappointments, a total loss is almost never an occurence. That is if the friendship was deep and true enough to begin with. Hating yourself never solves issues. Go to him and ask for forgiveness. You will both feel better in all areas.

Answer 5

Farm Bred does not hate you. Therefore, there is no reason for you to hate yourself. Be well.

Answer 6

No, you can still make up. Be careful with blood relations . These are the one touchy and very delicately poised.

However ,every person ,be it a friend ,has his/her due place and timings in one's life. Do not elevate the indispensability of any body in your life - Right time, right person .

Answer 7

Of course it is possible that you can lose a friend instantly, especially if you insult them or disrespect them in any way or form.

Answer 8

Yes unfortunately you can. I had a very close friend for seven years in Germany while I am here in the USA and she just one day decided not to take my calls or speak to me anymore. No arguements, no problems, we only talked a couple times a month by phone or web cam for seven years. Then one day poof..she no longer wishes to talk to me anymore with no reason or explanation leaving me hanging as to what went wrong.

All you can really do is accept that they have done it and move along as best as you can with life. Yeah it sucks, but you have other friends I hope that you can turn too as I did.

Good luck.

Answer 9

Yes, it is Possible, Especially when you Disrespect Someone, and if that is the case, You are not, a True friend to begin with!!

=)

Maybe YOU should apologize... enki?

Answer 10

He probablly doesn't hate you. Maybe he looks at people like the way he looks at you. If he does. Make some new friends.