my friend julia she is dating a boy named danny(he is bi) they are both in love but the problem is danny has been fooling around with one of her friends hecter(also bi) and things have gotton a bit sexual and julia does not know and it has happened a few weeks ago and only 2 other people kno me and taylor. tay does not wanna say anything 2 jay she just wants to standby and let it happen but she will comfort julia when she is sad. the thing is me julia and taylor are good friends and i dont want to see her get hurt & i wanna tell her and this tyme was not the last time something happened b tween hecter and danny, there was a plan in Oct. that they were gonna break up so danny and hecter could go out, but danny did not wanna do it cuz he loved julia, (hecter thoght of the plan)& i told julia the plan and she was FURIOUS wit both "d" and "h" and they split 4 a lil bit and then got back 2gether(nothing happened btween d and h when julia broke up) now julia and danny r bac 2gether wat 2 do?
2007-08-03 16:15:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Julia needs to know. I hate to say, it's dumb of her to date one who is bi, because they don't know who they like, boys or girls. She's being cheated on and that's wrong. Who will say they get married down the road and he does that?
Either way Julia is getting hurt and she needs to get out of the relationship.
Plus who knows what types of diseases and such can be spread by sex.
2007-08-03 16:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by kicking4jc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The others are right. You SHOULD tell her. After all, she IS your friend, isn't she? You shouldn't let her get hurt.
If she doesn't believe you, just tell her, "You'll find out soon enough."
Her subconscious will be thinking about that... and she'll be suspicious about Danny, whether she believes or not.
2007-08-11 21:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by annyhc821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to know if she doesn't believe you then find new friends. Tell her to stay away from bi guys.
2007-08-11 15:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by XxnikkirosexX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are playing with fire and in this you will end up burning your friends too. I think Flynn is right. Level up and lay it out.
2007-08-11 22:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Ape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are her friend....the best thing to do is lay it on the line with her....tell her. not only will you spare her further grief..But also an STD.
2007-08-11 22:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Flynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just wierd, find some new friends
2007-08-03 23:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cruiser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you is really her friend you would tell her.so that won't b on your consience.
2007-08-11 21:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by sexyshanti3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her now!
2007-08-11 21:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dee M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋