I obviously am a virgin and i plan to untill marraige. But i've always wondered about sex. Does it hurt your first time? & if it did how old were you when you first did it.
2007-08-03 14:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I was virgin until my wedding night, and my husband was very gentle and considerate. I felt a quick sting and then the rest was wonderful.
2007-08-03 14:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14. It hurt, but I did not bleed.
There can be pain when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
When you're turned on, the uterus and cervix rise, lengthening the vaginal tube. When his penis penetrates, the walls of the vagina stretch to accommodate the difference.
For some, the first few times make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, like the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help
2007-08-03 17:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Kudos to you for staying a virgin until you're married. It can hurt the first time especially if the other person is over zealous. I will tell you this much, when that right person comes along he'll know what to do or you will learn together but when all is done right, there will be feelings/stirrings in your body that will scare the you know what out of you--just relax and go with it--it's the greatest feeling in the world.
2007-08-03 14:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I waited into I was 18 to loose my virginity I also new him for 3years prior to me giving it up, It hurted when he first put it in but after I realized I was making love to the man I love it didnt hurt atleast my mind wasnt on the pain,, after the fact it did hurt when I peed I didnt know what to expact I was a lil scared but then my sister was like thats normal,, I think you should wait and also be comfortable with the person you are doing it with
2007-08-03 14:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the first time it does hurt.... at least it did for me....
But after awhile the pain goes away...
you might feel a little sore the next day but its normal...
I was and still am 17 when i lost my virginity.
And although i wish i waited for someone who loved me back i don't have any regrets...."never regret something that for even a second made you smile"
2007-08-03 14:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by giraffegirl7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt a little but if your husband is gentle and knows what he is doing, then it should all be good and you can enjoy! I was really nervous my first time, but realized that if I just relax it was so much better.
Best wishes :)
2007-08-03 14:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts the first couple of times. I was 49 the first time-JOKING! I was 15 and regreated it for years.
2007-08-03 14:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋